Another year is about to pass away. 2008 was a good year for my family but one that was a challenge to our country in many ways. The economy is the worst since the Great Depression. As our leadership changes in the United States in a few days we need to be praying for our country and the direction it really needs to go as we enter 2009.
On a personal note we enjoy our annual New Years Eve trip to Ottawa every year. We spend family time with my brother and his family as we usher in a new year.
Good luck to the University of Kansas today in the Insight Bowl against Minnesota.
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Monday, December 29, 2008
Two Brothers
Once there were two brothers.
Growing up, they did everything together. They lived out in the country and didn’t have any neighbors close by, so they became best friends.
As adults, they chose separate careers, but remained close friends. They’d see each other at church, get together to watch football, and go over to their parents house for dinner.
The younger brother seemed to live a charmed life. He was handsome, popular, successful in business. He was a leader at church and in the community.
The older brother struggled. He had a prickly personality and had a hard time getting ahead financially. People tended to overlook him when his little brother was around.
Over time, this began to wear on the older brother. He started to feel bitter towards his little brother. When his little brother bought a huge HD flatscreen TV and invited him to come over and watch the game on it, the older brother thought his brother was deliberately rubbing his success in his face. So he turned down the invitation.
They started to grow apart.
The older brother stopped calling his little brother to see what he was up to. He started sitting on the other side of the room at church and using the exit on the other side of the building so he wouldn’t run into his little brother. He stopped going over to his parent’s house when he knew that his little brother was going to be there.
The wider the chasm grew, the more angry the older brother became with his younger brother. Everything his little brother said and did was an offense to the older brother. So much so that he decided to go to another church so that he wouldn’t have to see him at all.
His little brother was puzzled by his big brother’s behavior, but figured his brother needed some space. If his big brother needed to talk to him about something, he would come to him when the time was right.
Their parents were worried, but the older brother wouldn’t tell them what was going on. They begged him to talk to someone about what was bugging him.
He finally sat down with a trusted old friend who had known his family for years and told him why he was so angry with his little brother.
The friend listened carefully and then gave him some blunt advice. He said, “This really isn’t about your brother. It’s about you. You’re projecting things onto your brother that aren’t true or real. You’ve got something dark and evil growing inside of you and if you don’t get a handle on it, it’s going to destroy you.”
The older brother assumed that, like everyone else, this old friend was taking his little brother’s side. So he ignored his friend’s advice and continued to obsess about all the ways his little brother was intentionally showing him up.
One night, emboldened by a little too much alcohol, he drove over to his brothers house and confronted him. His little brother was hurt and confused and denied all the accusations his older brother hurled at him. This made his brother even more angry. Blind with rage, he called his little brother unspeakable names and charged him. His little brother stumbled and fell and hit his head against the brick slab in front of the fireplace. He was dead before his older brother could calm down and realize what he had done.
When their parents learned what had happened, they were heartbroken. In an instant, they lost two sons. One was put in the ground and the other was sent off to prison.
In their grief they struggled to make sense of what had come between their two precious sons, whose names were Cain and Abel.
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21 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ 22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’ is answerable to the Sanhedrin. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. 23 “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, 24 leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to that person; then come and offer your gift. 25 “Settle matters quickly with your adversary who is taking you to court. Do it while you are still together on the way, or your adversary may hand you over to the judge, and the judge may hand you over to the officer, and you may be thrown into prison. 26 Truly I tell you, you will not get out until you have paid the last penny.
Matthew 5:21-26
Growing up, they did everything together. They lived out in the country and didn’t have any neighbors close by, so they became best friends.
As adults, they chose separate careers, but remained close friends. They’d see each other at church, get together to watch football, and go over to their parents house for dinner.
The younger brother seemed to live a charmed life. He was handsome, popular, successful in business. He was a leader at church and in the community.
The older brother struggled. He had a prickly personality and had a hard time getting ahead financially. People tended to overlook him when his little brother was around.
Over time, this began to wear on the older brother. He started to feel bitter towards his little brother. When his little brother bought a huge HD flatscreen TV and invited him to come over and watch the game on it, the older brother thought his brother was deliberately rubbing his success in his face. So he turned down the invitation.
They started to grow apart.
The older brother stopped calling his little brother to see what he was up to. He started sitting on the other side of the room at church and using the exit on the other side of the building so he wouldn’t run into his little brother. He stopped going over to his parent’s house when he knew that his little brother was going to be there.
The wider the chasm grew, the more angry the older brother became with his younger brother. Everything his little brother said and did was an offense to the older brother. So much so that he decided to go to another church so that he wouldn’t have to see him at all.
His little brother was puzzled by his big brother’s behavior, but figured his brother needed some space. If his big brother needed to talk to him about something, he would come to him when the time was right.
Their parents were worried, but the older brother wouldn’t tell them what was going on. They begged him to talk to someone about what was bugging him.
He finally sat down with a trusted old friend who had known his family for years and told him why he was so angry with his little brother.
The friend listened carefully and then gave him some blunt advice. He said, “This really isn’t about your brother. It’s about you. You’re projecting things onto your brother that aren’t true or real. You’ve got something dark and evil growing inside of you and if you don’t get a handle on it, it’s going to destroy you.”
The older brother assumed that, like everyone else, this old friend was taking his little brother’s side. So he ignored his friend’s advice and continued to obsess about all the ways his little brother was intentionally showing him up.
One night, emboldened by a little too much alcohol, he drove over to his brothers house and confronted him. His little brother was hurt and confused and denied all the accusations his older brother hurled at him. This made his brother even more angry. Blind with rage, he called his little brother unspeakable names and charged him. His little brother stumbled and fell and hit his head against the brick slab in front of the fireplace. He was dead before his older brother could calm down and realize what he had done.
When their parents learned what had happened, they were heartbroken. In an instant, they lost two sons. One was put in the ground and the other was sent off to prison.
In their grief they struggled to make sense of what had come between their two precious sons, whose names were Cain and Abel.
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21 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ 22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’ is answerable to the Sanhedrin. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. 23 “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, 24 leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to that person; then come and offer your gift. 25 “Settle matters quickly with your adversary who is taking you to court. Do it while you are still together on the way, or your adversary may hand you over to the judge, and the judge may hand you over to the officer, and you may be thrown into prison. 26 Truly I tell you, you will not get out until you have paid the last penny.
Matthew 5:21-26
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Friday, December 26, 2008
Today's Prayer
Oh Lord, You're Beautiful
Keith Green
Oh Lord, You're beautiful,
Your face is all I seek,
And when Your eyes are on this child,
Your grace abounds to me.
Chorus:
I wanna take Your Word
and shine it all around.
But first help me just to live it, Lord!
And when I'm doing well.
Help me to never seek a crown.
For my reward is giving glory to You.
Oh, Lord, You're wonderful,
Your touch is all I need,
And when Your hand is on this child,
Your healing I receive.
Oh Lord, please light the fire,
That once burned bright and clear,
Replace the lamp of my first love,
That burned with holy fear.
Gratefully, in Jesus' name. Amen.
Keith Green
Oh Lord, You're beautiful,
Your face is all I seek,
And when Your eyes are on this child,
Your grace abounds to me.
Chorus:
I wanna take Your Word
and shine it all around.
But first help me just to live it, Lord!
And when I'm doing well.
Help me to never seek a crown.
For my reward is giving glory to You.
Oh, Lord, You're wonderful,
Your touch is all I need,
And when Your hand is on this child,
Your healing I receive.
Oh Lord, please light the fire,
That once burned bright and clear,
Replace the lamp of my first love,
That burned with holy fear.
Gratefully, in Jesus' name. Amen.
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Christmas Eve
Christmas...the day we celebrate the birth of the Savior...the One who was rejected by men...the One who came from heaven to earth to give his life a ransom for your sins and mine...the One who is now in heaven preparing a place for his followers...the One who is coming again to take us to be with him in heaven forever. How can we ever thank God and the Son of God enough for so great a salvation?
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Allison's Graduation
Were back from our quick trip to Oklahoma for Allison's Graduation and Christmas with our parents; and our trip to Texas to get motels and caterers lined up for the wedding in February. We had a great time with the Carroll Family and enjoyed our time together. We got home about 1:30 this morning after grocery shopping at Walmart in Emporia. My head hit the pillow about 3:00 a.m. and was up early to begin cooking Christmas cookies and caramels. Freezing rain and snow is here....it definitely looks like Christmas. For my food buddies that read this blog on a daily basis I had some of the best fried chicken I have ever ate at Babes Chicken House in Burleson. What a meal.
God the Life of the Soul
This amazing quote from Tricia McCary Rhodes in her new book, Sacred Chaos: Spiritual Disciplines for the Life You Have.
"Sometime I think of the hours and days when I have shunned the Lord's indwelling presence through ignorance or neglect or willful rebellion, and I grieve. But I understand better now that no matter how unsacred the space within me seems to be, God's desire to make himself at home there far outweighs the waywardness of my heart. He will win. His mercies, new every morning, remind me that though I can never make myself worthy of his presence, I am freely received and fully accepted by the Beloved.
God himself has come to make our souls a haven for holy communion, a place of personal retreat--for rest or rejuvenation or desperately needed restoration--no matter the circumstances that swirl about us. This is both our hope and our destiny, for as Saint Augustine said so well, "The soul is the life of the body, and God is the life of the soul.'"
"Sometime I think of the hours and days when I have shunned the Lord's indwelling presence through ignorance or neglect or willful rebellion, and I grieve. But I understand better now that no matter how unsacred the space within me seems to be, God's desire to make himself at home there far outweighs the waywardness of my heart. He will win. His mercies, new every morning, remind me that though I can never make myself worthy of his presence, I am freely received and fully accepted by the Beloved.
God himself has come to make our souls a haven for holy communion, a place of personal retreat--for rest or rejuvenation or desperately needed restoration--no matter the circumstances that swirl about us. This is both our hope and our destiny, for as Saint Augustine said so well, "The soul is the life of the body, and God is the life of the soul.'"
Monday, December 22, 2008
Friday, December 19, 2008
Graduation
Congratulations to Allison Carroll on graduating from Oklahoma Christian University today at 2:00 p.m. We will be there to celebrate with you. You will make a great elementary teacher! By the way...the wedding is only 70 days away.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Welcome Home Craig
It's great to have Craig home from NYC for a few days. I love to sit and listen to his stories of New York City and school. I now know how my grandmother must have felt when I told her stories about my travels growing up. She would listen to every word. Enjoy the time off Craig....it's great to have you home.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
The Three Trees
Once upon a mountain top, three little trees stood and dreamed of what they wanted to become when they grew up. The first little tree looked up at the stars and said: " I want to hold treasure. I want to be covered with gold and filled with precious stones. I'll be the most beautiful treasure chest in the world!" The second little tree looked out at the small stream trickling by on it's way to the ocean. " I want to be traveling mighty waters and carrying powerful kings. I'll be the strongest ship in the world! The third little tree looked down into the valley below where busy men and women worked in a busy town. I don't want to leave the mountain top at all. I want to grow so tall that when people stop to look at me they'll raise their eyes to heaven and think of God. I will be the tallest tree in the world.
Years, passed. The rain came, the sun shone and the little trees grew tall. One day three wood cutters climbed the mountain. The first wood cutter looked at the first tree and said, "This tree is beautiful. It is perfect for me." With a swoop of his shining ax, the first tree fell. "Now I shall make a beautiful chest, I shall hold wonderful treasure!" the first tree said.
The second wood cutter looked at the second tree and said, "This tree is strong. It's perfect for me." With a swoop of his shining ax, the second tree fell. "Now I shall sail mighty waters!" thought the second tree. " I shall be a strong ship for mighty kings!"
The third tree felt her heart sink when the last wood cutter looked her way. She stood straight and tall and pointed bravely to heaven. But the wood cutter never even looked up. "Any kind of tree will do for me." He muttered. With a swoop of his shining ax, the third tree fell.
The first tree rejoiced when the wood cutter brought her to a carpenter's shop. But the carpenter fashioned the tree into a feed box for animals. The once beautiful tree was not covered with gold, or treasure. She was coated with saw dust and filled with hay for hungry farm animals.
The second tree smiled when the wood cutter took her to a shipyard, but no mighty sailing ship was made that day. Instead the once strong tree was hammered and awed into a simple fishing boat. She was too small and too weak to sail to an ocean, or even a river, instead she was taken to a little lake. The third tree was confused when the wood cutter cut her into strong beams and left her in a lumberyard. "What happened?" The once tall tree wondered. " All I ever wanted was to stay on the mountain top and point to God..."
Many days and nights passed. The three trees nearly forgot their dreams. But one night, golden starlight poured over the first tree as a young woman placed her newborn baby in the feed box. "I wish I could make a cradle for him." Her husband whispered. The mother squeezed his hand and smiled as the starlight shone on the smooth and sturdy wood. " This manger is beautiful." She said. And suddenly the first tree knew he was holding the greatest treasure in the world.
One evening a tired traveler and his friends crowded into the old fishing boat. The traveler fell asleep as the second tree quietly sailed out into the lake. Soon a thundering and a thrashing storm arose. The little tree shuddered. She new she did not have the strength to carry so many passengers safely through the wind and the rain. The tired man awoke. He stood up, stretched out his hand, and said, "Peace." The storm stopped as quickly as it had begun. And suddenly the second tree knew he was carrying the king of heaven and earth.
One Friday morning, the third tree was startled when her beams were yanked from the forgotten wood pile. She flinched as she was carried through an angry jeering crowd. She shuddered when soldiers nailed a man's hand to her. She felt ugly and harsh and cruel. But on Sunday morning, when the sun rose and the earth trembled with joy beneath her, the third tree knew that God's love had changed everything. It had made the third tree strong. And every time people thought of the third tree, they would think of God. That was better than being the tallest tree in the world.
The next time you feel down because you didn't get what you wanted, sit tight and be happy because God is thinking of something better to give you.
Years, passed. The rain came, the sun shone and the little trees grew tall. One day three wood cutters climbed the mountain. The first wood cutter looked at the first tree and said, "This tree is beautiful. It is perfect for me." With a swoop of his shining ax, the first tree fell. "Now I shall make a beautiful chest, I shall hold wonderful treasure!" the first tree said.
The second wood cutter looked at the second tree and said, "This tree is strong. It's perfect for me." With a swoop of his shining ax, the second tree fell. "Now I shall sail mighty waters!" thought the second tree. " I shall be a strong ship for mighty kings!"
The third tree felt her heart sink when the last wood cutter looked her way. She stood straight and tall and pointed bravely to heaven. But the wood cutter never even looked up. "Any kind of tree will do for me." He muttered. With a swoop of his shining ax, the third tree fell.
The first tree rejoiced when the wood cutter brought her to a carpenter's shop. But the carpenter fashioned the tree into a feed box for animals. The once beautiful tree was not covered with gold, or treasure. She was coated with saw dust and filled with hay for hungry farm animals.
The second tree smiled when the wood cutter took her to a shipyard, but no mighty sailing ship was made that day. Instead the once strong tree was hammered and awed into a simple fishing boat. She was too small and too weak to sail to an ocean, or even a river, instead she was taken to a little lake. The third tree was confused when the wood cutter cut her into strong beams and left her in a lumberyard. "What happened?" The once tall tree wondered. " All I ever wanted was to stay on the mountain top and point to God..."
Many days and nights passed. The three trees nearly forgot their dreams. But one night, golden starlight poured over the first tree as a young woman placed her newborn baby in the feed box. "I wish I could make a cradle for him." Her husband whispered. The mother squeezed his hand and smiled as the starlight shone on the smooth and sturdy wood. " This manger is beautiful." She said. And suddenly the first tree knew he was holding the greatest treasure in the world.
One evening a tired traveler and his friends crowded into the old fishing boat. The traveler fell asleep as the second tree quietly sailed out into the lake. Soon a thundering and a thrashing storm arose. The little tree shuddered. She new she did not have the strength to carry so many passengers safely through the wind and the rain. The tired man awoke. He stood up, stretched out his hand, and said, "Peace." The storm stopped as quickly as it had begun. And suddenly the second tree knew he was carrying the king of heaven and earth.
One Friday morning, the third tree was startled when her beams were yanked from the forgotten wood pile. She flinched as she was carried through an angry jeering crowd. She shuddered when soldiers nailed a man's hand to her. She felt ugly and harsh and cruel. But on Sunday morning, when the sun rose and the earth trembled with joy beneath her, the third tree knew that God's love had changed everything. It had made the third tree strong. And every time people thought of the third tree, they would think of God. That was better than being the tallest tree in the world.
The next time you feel down because you didn't get what you wanted, sit tight and be happy because God is thinking of something better to give you.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
What Has Christmas Become?
Has Christmas become more about buying all kinds of STUFF, so we can give that STUFF to others who already have a lot of STUFF who will be giving us STUFF that we may not need?
Monday, December 15, 2008
The Ultimate Gift-Part 3
What can we do to make this Christmas the very best? Here are four special gifts we can give.........
One is to worship Christ more fully than ever before. We get so busy and forget the precious gift that Jesus gave for us. During this time of the season, make worship a priority.
Second, spend less. Don't go in debt. Don't rack up credit card bills. Don't over extend financially where you are so stressed out as you start the new year.
Third, give more. Give more of your time and energy to helping those around you. Less about satisfying your own desires and m ore about touching the lives of others.
And last, let's show our love during this busy holiday season. Don't honk at the guy that stole your parking place. Be nice to the cousin who you might not care to be around but really try to show him you care.
The holiday season can be a trying and confusing time. One that you wish could pass quickly. But it could be a time that many good things could happen for the cause of Christ.
Let's show Christ and others what the holidays should be all about.......Worship, Sacrifice, Giving to others and Loving more. Christ did that for us and we can shower these on others this holiday season.
“He was despised and rejected—a man of sorrows, acquainted with bitterest grief. We turned our backs on him and looked the other way when he went by. He was despised, and we did not care. Yet it was our weaknesses he carried; it was our sorrows that weighed him down. And we thought his troubles were a punishment from God for his own sins!” Isaiah 53:3-4
One is to worship Christ more fully than ever before. We get so busy and forget the precious gift that Jesus gave for us. During this time of the season, make worship a priority.
Second, spend less. Don't go in debt. Don't rack up credit card bills. Don't over extend financially where you are so stressed out as you start the new year.
Third, give more. Give more of your time and energy to helping those around you. Less about satisfying your own desires and m ore about touching the lives of others.
And last, let's show our love during this busy holiday season. Don't honk at the guy that stole your parking place. Be nice to the cousin who you might not care to be around but really try to show him you care.
The holiday season can be a trying and confusing time. One that you wish could pass quickly. But it could be a time that many good things could happen for the cause of Christ.
Let's show Christ and others what the holidays should be all about.......Worship, Sacrifice, Giving to others and Loving more. Christ did that for us and we can shower these on others this holiday season.
“He was despised and rejected—a man of sorrows, acquainted with bitterest grief. We turned our backs on him and looked the other way when he went by. He was despised, and we did not care. Yet it was our weaknesses he carried; it was our sorrows that weighed him down. And we thought his troubles were a punishment from God for his own sins!” Isaiah 53:3-4
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Storm
Debbie took this picture on the way to Church Sunday morning. When we left the house it was 58 degrees when we hit the clouds the wind shifted out of the north and it was 36 degrees. It's 5 degrees right now with a windchill of 15 below.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Friday, December 12, 2008
Christmas Open House
Today is the day. Our annual Christmas Open House for the employees of USD 420 Osage City. Debbie has planned for this party all year. We have cooked for two weeks and look forward to a packed house of 140 individuals today. Should be a fun day.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
The Ultimare Gift-Part 2
Ever think about the special gifts Christ has given you? When Christ came to this world He came with a purpose. He wanted us to have a relationship with Him.
One thing Christ brought us was Freedom. Jesus came to set us free from sin. We were held as captives but He came to set us free from the bondage of false realities, addictions, destructive behaviors, relationship problems...you name it, He took it all away.
Second, He gave us the gift of forgiveness. Jesus paid it all. He brought forgiveness to those that trusted and believed in Him. During this busy holiday season maybe we can offer that same forgiveness to others. Anyone holding a grudge? Any bad relationships? This time of year would be a good time to say I'm sorry for those careless words or deeds. Forgiveness is a great gift.
Third, Jesus brought light to a dark world. We lived in darkness until the Light of the World entered this place. We can and need to be that light today to those around us. Those searching for something positive and worthwhile in their lives. Light is powerful and can be that path to a great change in the lives of many individuals.
(More to Come)
One thing Christ brought us was Freedom. Jesus came to set us free from sin. We were held as captives but He came to set us free from the bondage of false realities, addictions, destructive behaviors, relationship problems...you name it, He took it all away.
Second, He gave us the gift of forgiveness. Jesus paid it all. He brought forgiveness to those that trusted and believed in Him. During this busy holiday season maybe we can offer that same forgiveness to others. Anyone holding a grudge? Any bad relationships? This time of year would be a good time to say I'm sorry for those careless words or deeds. Forgiveness is a great gift.
Third, Jesus brought light to a dark world. We lived in darkness until the Light of the World entered this place. We can and need to be that light today to those around us. Those searching for something positive and worthwhile in their lives. Light is powerful and can be that path to a great change in the lives of many individuals.
(More to Come)
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
The Ultimate Gift-Part 1
This time of year is exciting. The holiday music, the beautiful lights, great food and time spent with family and friends. But with all the excitement, it's a difficult time for many people in the world. The Christmas season is one that draws many non-churchgoers back to church for special services and programs.
A sermon I heard recently talked about this special time of year and the many challenges we encounter during the holidays.
The question was raised, "how would Jesus like us to celebrate during this time of year"?
How have we celebrated? By looking at the consumerism and the materialistic side of Christmas. The American people spent $450 billion dollars on Christmas gifts in 2007. I think we have a serious problem if we feel that Christmas should be totally about getting gifts and not giving what truly needs to be given to people during this busy holiday period.
In John 3:16, "for God so loved the world He gave us His Son". That was the ultimate gift. How can we pass that gift on during the next few days...................
(More to Come)
A sermon I heard recently talked about this special time of year and the many challenges we encounter during the holidays.
The question was raised, "how would Jesus like us to celebrate during this time of year"?
How have we celebrated? By looking at the consumerism and the materialistic side of Christmas. The American people spent $450 billion dollars on Christmas gifts in 2007. I think we have a serious problem if we feel that Christmas should be totally about getting gifts and not giving what truly needs to be given to people during this busy holiday period.
In John 3:16, "for God so loved the world He gave us His Son". That was the ultimate gift. How can we pass that gift on during the next few days...................
(More to Come)
Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Christmas: A Call to Remember
Christmas: A Call to Remember
In his book, A Room Called Remember, Fredrick Buechner tells about the great snowfall in New York City in the winter of 1947. At first it seemed no different from any other snow storm. The flakes gently floated down without any wind to drive them. All day they fell. Gradually the sidewalks, parked cars and buildings were covered with a blanket of white. Streets became slushy. Shopkeepers were out with their shovels trying to keep clear a path to their doors. And the snow kept falling. The plows couldn’t keep ahead of it. Consequently, the traffic nearly came to a standstill. Businesses closed early and people did their best to get home before nightfall.
By the next morning bustling New York was a totally different city. Abandoned cars were buried. Nothing on wheels could move. Skiers glided gracefully down Park Avenue. The most striking transformation, however, was the silence. The only sounds were muffled voices and the ringing church bells. People listened because they couldn’t help themselves. And our world rarely listens anymore—whether in New York or Toronto, London or Los Angeles, Sidney or Singapore—unless a crisis of sufficient magnitude thrusts a wrench into the wheels of our highspeed, technological society and forces us to a standstill.
Except, perhaps, as Buechner points out, at Christmas time when it’s hard not to stop and listen. Business increases to a frenzied pace. Canned carols blast out over the din of traffic. Bells jingle. Red-robed Santas freeze in Chicago, while their counterparts fry in Melbourne. Then, suddenly, night falls on Christmas Eve. The last shop closes. All the hullabaloo stops. Everything is silent—for one brief day.
This year don’t miss the silence. Take time to listen. Be still and hear the true message of Christmas which, above all, is a call to remember that God has not forgotten us, but is vitally involved in the affairs of mankind. Two thousand years ago he came to earth in person to save us from our sins.
So as Christmas rapidly approaches, may I encourage you to pause for just a moment and hear God’s Word: "The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel—which means, ‘God with us.’"(Matthew 1:23).
And again, "An angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, ‘Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.’" (Matthew 1:20).
One of the great tragedies of our time is not that God has forgotten us, but that we have forgotten him.
Richard Innes
In his book, A Room Called Remember, Fredrick Buechner tells about the great snowfall in New York City in the winter of 1947. At first it seemed no different from any other snow storm. The flakes gently floated down without any wind to drive them. All day they fell. Gradually the sidewalks, parked cars and buildings were covered with a blanket of white. Streets became slushy. Shopkeepers were out with their shovels trying to keep clear a path to their doors. And the snow kept falling. The plows couldn’t keep ahead of it. Consequently, the traffic nearly came to a standstill. Businesses closed early and people did their best to get home before nightfall.
By the next morning bustling New York was a totally different city. Abandoned cars were buried. Nothing on wheels could move. Skiers glided gracefully down Park Avenue. The most striking transformation, however, was the silence. The only sounds were muffled voices and the ringing church bells. People listened because they couldn’t help themselves. And our world rarely listens anymore—whether in New York or Toronto, London or Los Angeles, Sidney or Singapore—unless a crisis of sufficient magnitude thrusts a wrench into the wheels of our highspeed, technological society and forces us to a standstill.
Except, perhaps, as Buechner points out, at Christmas time when it’s hard not to stop and listen. Business increases to a frenzied pace. Canned carols blast out over the din of traffic. Bells jingle. Red-robed Santas freeze in Chicago, while their counterparts fry in Melbourne. Then, suddenly, night falls on Christmas Eve. The last shop closes. All the hullabaloo stops. Everything is silent—for one brief day.
This year don’t miss the silence. Take time to listen. Be still and hear the true message of Christmas which, above all, is a call to remember that God has not forgotten us, but is vitally involved in the affairs of mankind. Two thousand years ago he came to earth in person to save us from our sins.
So as Christmas rapidly approaches, may I encourage you to pause for just a moment and hear God’s Word: "The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel—which means, ‘God with us.’"(Matthew 1:23).
And again, "An angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, ‘Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.’" (Matthew 1:20).
One of the great tragedies of our time is not that God has forgotten us, but that we have forgotten him.
Richard Innes
Monday, December 08, 2008
Sooners Play for National Title
Great game Saturday night as the Sooners won the Big 12 Championship. OU plays Florida for the NCAA Title on January 8.
Friday, December 05, 2008
Healing Rain
Healing Rain
Michael W. Smith
Healing rain is coming down
It's coming nearer to this old town
Rich and poor, weak and strong
It's bringing mercy, it won't be long.
Healing rain is coming down
It's coming closer to the lost and found
Tears of joy, and tears of shame
Are washed forever in Jesus' name
Healing rain, it comes with fire
So let it fall and take us higher
Healing rain, I'm not afraid
To be washed in Heaven's rain
Lift your heads, let us return
To the mercy seat where time began
And in your eyes, I see the pain
Come soak this dry heart with healing rain
And only You, the Son of man
Can take a leper and let him stand
So lift your hands, they can be held
By someone greater, the great I Am
Healing rain, it comes with fire
So let it fall and take us higher
Healing rain, I'm not afraid
To be washed in Heaven's rain
To be washed in Heaven's rain...
Healing rain is falling down
Healing rain is falling down
I'm not afraid
I'm not afraid...
Michael W. Smith
Healing rain is coming down
It's coming nearer to this old town
Rich and poor, weak and strong
It's bringing mercy, it won't be long.
Healing rain is coming down
It's coming closer to the lost and found
Tears of joy, and tears of shame
Are washed forever in Jesus' name
Healing rain, it comes with fire
So let it fall and take us higher
Healing rain, I'm not afraid
To be washed in Heaven's rain
Lift your heads, let us return
To the mercy seat where time began
And in your eyes, I see the pain
Come soak this dry heart with healing rain
And only You, the Son of man
Can take a leper and let him stand
So lift your hands, they can be held
By someone greater, the great I Am
Healing rain, it comes with fire
So let it fall and take us higher
Healing rain, I'm not afraid
To be washed in Heaven's rain
To be washed in Heaven's rain...
Healing rain is falling down
Healing rain is falling down
I'm not afraid
I'm not afraid...
Thursday, December 04, 2008
Howard Dodd Obituary
Howard Dean Dodd, 75, of Topeka, passed away peacefully Tuesday, Dec. 2, 2008 surrounded by his loving wife and family. Howard was born August 15, 1933 in Clovis, NM. He worked for the AT&SF Railroad from the age of 18 until his retirement in 1987 when he was assistant superintendent of the Topeka shops. Howard was an active member of the Central Church of Christ in Topeka and a former elder of Highland Park Church of Christ. Howard married his childhood sweetheart, Doris Bomar of Bovina, TX, Oct. 15, 1951, in Clovis. They recently celebrated their 57th anniversary. Howard is survived by Doris; his sister Joyce Dodd Jones of Clovis, NM; son Wesley Dodd (Teresa) of Monument, CO; son Bradley Dodd (Sandra) of Austin, TX; daughter Melissa Dodd Eskilson (Kurt) of Topeka; and daughter Lori Dultmeier (Jim) of Topeka; 13 grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren: Alicia Dodd Thompson (Tyler); Jeremy Dodd, Shannon Dodd; Eric Dodd (Kylie) and sons Nathan and Tate; Amy Dodd Peterson (Eric), daughter Mackenzie and son Ian; Kevin Dodd (Tanya) and daughter Avery; Brooke Eskilson Patterson (Wade); Blake Eskilson, Alek Eskilson; Justin A. Dultmeier (Danae), son Tyson and daughter Alexis; and David A. Dultmeier. He was preceded in death by granddaughter Jennifer R. Dultmeier and grandson Nathan Dodd. Howard will lie in state after 2 p.m. Friday, December 5. The viewing will be from 5 to 7 p.m. at Penwell-Gabel Funeral Home, Southeast Chapel, 2843 SE Minnesota Ave., Topeka. The funeral will be December 6 at 10:00 a.m. at Central Church of Christ, Huntoon and College in Topeka. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to World Bible School, International Headquarters, P.O. Box 2169, Cedar Park, TX, 78630-2169; by phone at 800-311-2006, or online at http://www.worldbibleschool.net/.
Wednesday, December 03, 2008
Howard Dodd
On Tuesday morning the Central Church lost a special family member. Howard Dodd passed from this life into his eternal reward with his Heavenly Father.
Howard was a man of faith and integrity. He was a man that loved his Father and loved the Central Church. He was a man that loved and cherished his family and loved his wife with all his heart.
When Howard talked, you listened. He was a man of great wisdom. I loved his stories of New Mexico that he shared with me. He loved to travel and enjoyed sharing stories about the places that Doris and he had visited.
I am thankful Howard gave the opening prayer a week ago Sunday night. I always enjoyed hearing Howard pray for the congregation. That last prayer - I will always remember.
We will miss Howard immensely.
We will miss his calm demeanor, his caring attitude and his loving spirit.
Howard, thank you for touching my life in a special way. You will never know how many you influenced in such a positive way during your 75 years on earth.
Enjoy your eternal home with our Father.
I know you are flying high this morning with the angels!
Howard was a man of faith and integrity. He was a man that loved his Father and loved the Central Church. He was a man that loved and cherished his family and loved his wife with all his heart.
When Howard talked, you listened. He was a man of great wisdom. I loved his stories of New Mexico that he shared with me. He loved to travel and enjoyed sharing stories about the places that Doris and he had visited.
I am thankful Howard gave the opening prayer a week ago Sunday night. I always enjoyed hearing Howard pray for the congregation. That last prayer - I will always remember.
We will miss Howard immensely.
We will miss his calm demeanor, his caring attitude and his loving spirit.
Howard, thank you for touching my life in a special way. You will never know how many you influenced in such a positive way during your 75 years on earth.
Enjoy your eternal home with our Father.
I know you are flying high this morning with the angels!
Tuesday, December 02, 2008
Psalm 23
The Lord is my Shepherd ----- that's a Relationship!
I shall not want ----- that's Supply!
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures ----that's Rest!
He leadeth me beside the still waters -----that's Refreshment!
He restoreth my soul ----- that's Healing!
He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness --that's Guidance!
For His name sake ----- that's Purpose!
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death--that's Testing!
I will fear no evil ----- that's Protection!
For Thou art with me ----- that's Faithfulness!
Thy rod and Thy staff they comfort me -----that's Discipline!
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies------that's Hope!
Thou annointest my head with oil ----- that's Consecration!
My cup runneth over ----- that's Abundance!
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life----that's Blessing!
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord -----that's Security!
Forever ----- that's Eternity!
I shall not want ----- that's Supply!
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures ----that's Rest!
He leadeth me beside the still waters -----that's Refreshment!
He restoreth my soul ----- that's Healing!
He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness --that's Guidance!
For His name sake ----- that's Purpose!
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death--that's Testing!
I will fear no evil ----- that's Protection!
For Thou art with me ----- that's Faithfulness!
Thy rod and Thy staff they comfort me -----that's Discipline!
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies------that's Hope!
Thou annointest my head with oil ----- that's Consecration!
My cup runneth over ----- that's Abundance!
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life----that's Blessing!
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord -----that's Security!
Forever ----- that's Eternity!
Monday, December 01, 2008
Silent Sermon
A church member, who previously had attended worship services faithfully,for years, stopped going. After a few weeks, the minister decided to visit him.
It was a chilly evening. The preacher found the man at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire. Guessing the reason for the minister's visit; the man welcomed him, led him to a comfortable chair near the fireplace, and waited.
The preacher made himself at home but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated the dance of the flames around the burning logs. After some minutes, the preacher took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning ember and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone, then he sat back in his chair, still silent.
The host watched all this in quiet contemplation. As the one lone ember's flame flickered and diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and dead.
Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting. The preacher glanced at his watch and realized it was time to leave. He slowly stood up, picked up the cold, dead ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately, it began to glow,once more with the light and warmth, of the burning coals around it.
As the preacher reached the door to leave, his host said with a tear running down his cheek, 'Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the fiery sermon. I shall be back in worship, next Sunday.'
We live in a world today, which tries to say too much with too little. Consequently, few listen. Sometimes the best sermons are the ones left unspoken.
It was a chilly evening. The preacher found the man at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire. Guessing the reason for the minister's visit; the man welcomed him, led him to a comfortable chair near the fireplace, and waited.
The preacher made himself at home but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated the dance of the flames around the burning logs. After some minutes, the preacher took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning ember and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone, then he sat back in his chair, still silent.
The host watched all this in quiet contemplation. As the one lone ember's flame flickered and diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and dead.
Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting. The preacher glanced at his watch and realized it was time to leave. He slowly stood up, picked up the cold, dead ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately, it began to glow,once more with the light and warmth, of the burning coals around it.
As the preacher reached the door to leave, his host said with a tear running down his cheek, 'Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the fiery sermon. I shall be back in worship, next Sunday.'
We live in a world today, which tries to say too much with too little. Consequently, few listen. Sometimes the best sermons are the ones left unspoken.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Prentice Meador
Prentice Meador former pulpit minister at Prestoncrest Church of Christ in Dallas and currently on the faculty at Lipscomb University passed away suddenly on Tuesday. He and his wife Barbara are truly wonderful people who have done so much for so many. He was a great minister of the Gospel.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Thanksgiving Nightmare
I hope your Thanksgiving is better than this individuals Thanksgiving nightmare………………
My in-laws were in town 2 years ago and in addition my parents were coming over. It was the first time in our marriage that everybody came to OUR house for the holiday. That morning as my wife was making early preparation, our septic tank overflowed all over our basement. The smell was anything but festive and the mess was even worse. A $50 shop-vac and a $500 holiday septic service special helped clean up a little but nonetheless, it was not something I ever care to relive. We laugh about it now, but then…UGH!
May your blessings overflow this Thanksgiving!
My in-laws were in town 2 years ago and in addition my parents were coming over. It was the first time in our marriage that everybody came to OUR house for the holiday. That morning as my wife was making early preparation, our septic tank overflowed all over our basement. The smell was anything but festive and the mess was even worse. A $50 shop-vac and a $500 holiday septic service special helped clean up a little but nonetheless, it was not something I ever care to relive. We laugh about it now, but then…UGH!
May your blessings overflow this Thanksgiving!
Monday, November 24, 2008
Thanksgiving Thoughts
Thanksgiving 2008
A year full of blessings
Health
Debbie
Brian
Craig
Allison
Mom-Dad
The Central Family
Running each morning at 4:45 and seeing the falling stars
Hearing the dogs bark as I run scaring away the skunks
Turkey
Summer Saturday morning's Fishing with Mike
My vocational ministry
Debbie’s Health
Very soon a new teacher in the family
Going to bed on a Friday night exhausted from the week
Sweaters during the cold weather
Golf with Debbie
Central YP Group
My Building Principals
Warm Weather
Hot weather
Dry Weather
A God who Loves Me
A Savior Who Died for Me
A year full of blessings
Health
Debbie
Brian
Craig
Allison
Mom-Dad
The Central Family
Running each morning at 4:45 and seeing the falling stars
Hearing the dogs bark as I run scaring away the skunks
Turkey
Summer Saturday morning's Fishing with Mike
My vocational ministry
Debbie’s Health
Very soon a new teacher in the family
Going to bed on a Friday night exhausted from the week
Sweaters during the cold weather
Golf with Debbie
Central YP Group
My Building Principals
Warm Weather
Hot weather
Dry Weather
A God who Loves Me
A Savior Who Died for Me
Friday, November 21, 2008
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Thursday Thoughts
Wise words from Donald McCullough:
“Those who have faced the complexity of their own lives, who have stumbled and fallen and been humiliated by their failures, have a more gracious spirit toward other people. They understand that things are rarely black and white, but more often varying shades of gray"
“Those who have faced the complexity of their own lives, who have stumbled and fallen and been humiliated by their failures, have a more gracious spirit toward other people. They understand that things are rarely black and white, but more often varying shades of gray"
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
What Makes You Happy and Satisfied?
Last night Debbie and I attended our 17th University of Kansas Honor’s Dinner. We hosted the event where we recognized the top 10% of our graduating class along with the top 10% of the Osage County and Wabaunsee County Schools. It’s always a privilege to honor the best and brightest.
Our guest speaker was Dr. Marlesa Roney from KU. She motivated the kids and encouraged them to make a difference in this world. A question she asked the students was a simple one, but one that we all need to consider from time to time. The question was, “what makes you happy and satisfied?”
As I sat there and considered the question, I thought to myself right now I am really not very happy or satisfied.
Stress at work, activities and meetings each night, late night dinners, holidays coming up but having to work because of reports being due, and pending state budget cuts where I am going to have to lay people off. How can I really be happy and satisfied with all these struggles?
Slow down world. Let me off this rat race. I want to be content, happy and satisfied but how?
By going back to where true happiness is found…….in Christ.
When I got out of the dinner I thought about the words to this new song that I have fallen in love with. It describes what Christ did for me and continues to do each and every day…………
"In Christ Alone"
Words and Music by Keith Getty & Stuart Townend
Copyright © 2001 Kingsway Thankyou Music
In Christ alone my hope is found;
He is my light, my strength, my song;
This cornerstone, this solid ground,
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm.
What heights of love, what depths of peace,
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease!
My comforter, my all in all—
Here in the love of Christ I stand.
In Christ alone, Who took on flesh,
Fullness of God in helpless babe!
This gift of love and righteousness,
Scorned by the ones He came to save.
Till on that cross as Jesus died,
The wrath of God was satisfied;
For ev'ry sin on Him was laid—
Here in the death of Christ I live.
There in the ground His body lay,
Light of the world by darkness slain;
Then bursting forth in glorious day,
Up from the grave He rose again!
And as He stands in victory,
Sin's curse has lost its grip on me;
For I am His and He is mine—
Bought with the precious blood of Christ.
No guilt in life, no fear in death—
This is the pow'r of Christ in me;
From life's first cry to final breath,
Jesus commands my destiny.
No pow'r of hell, no scheme of man,
Can ever pluck me from His hand;
Till He returns or calls me home—
Here in the pow'r of Christ I'll stand.
Our guest speaker was Dr. Marlesa Roney from KU. She motivated the kids and encouraged them to make a difference in this world. A question she asked the students was a simple one, but one that we all need to consider from time to time. The question was, “what makes you happy and satisfied?”
As I sat there and considered the question, I thought to myself right now I am really not very happy or satisfied.
Stress at work, activities and meetings each night, late night dinners, holidays coming up but having to work because of reports being due, and pending state budget cuts where I am going to have to lay people off. How can I really be happy and satisfied with all these struggles?
Slow down world. Let me off this rat race. I want to be content, happy and satisfied but how?
By going back to where true happiness is found…….in Christ.
When I got out of the dinner I thought about the words to this new song that I have fallen in love with. It describes what Christ did for me and continues to do each and every day…………
"In Christ Alone"
Words and Music by Keith Getty & Stuart Townend
Copyright © 2001 Kingsway Thankyou Music
In Christ alone my hope is found;
He is my light, my strength, my song;
This cornerstone, this solid ground,
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm.
What heights of love, what depths of peace,
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease!
My comforter, my all in all—
Here in the love of Christ I stand.
In Christ alone, Who took on flesh,
Fullness of God in helpless babe!
This gift of love and righteousness,
Scorned by the ones He came to save.
Till on that cross as Jesus died,
The wrath of God was satisfied;
For ev'ry sin on Him was laid—
Here in the death of Christ I live.
There in the ground His body lay,
Light of the world by darkness slain;
Then bursting forth in glorious day,
Up from the grave He rose again!
And as He stands in victory,
Sin's curse has lost its grip on me;
For I am His and He is mine—
Bought with the precious blood of Christ.
No guilt in life, no fear in death—
This is the pow'r of Christ in me;
From life's first cry to final breath,
Jesus commands my destiny.
No pow'r of hell, no scheme of man,
Can ever pluck me from His hand;
Till He returns or calls me home—
Here in the pow'r of Christ I'll stand.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
American Education Week
Congratulations to all those involved in educating the youth of America. This week is set aside to thank you for so many long hours and hard work.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Remember
I read Psalm 105 last week and something so simple came to life. It's a Psalm of thanksgiving. A history lesson for God's Children. He wants us to remember that He will continue to take care of our needs. Writing things down helps us remember what has occurred and what we need to be thankful for. This Thanksgiving share those blessings with your family. What has God blessed you with this past year?
Thursday, November 13, 2008
My Top 5 Favorite Restaurants
Many of my friends ask me from time to time how I know where the best restaurants are. I tell them its from being in every small town in the Midwest for the past 30 years with school activities, meetings and golf outings with Debbie. Someone the other day asked me to list my top 5. Here they are...........
1. Town and Country (Wichita, Kansas)
When Town and Country restaurant opened its doors in 1957, it was one of the best family style diners in the Wichita area. 48 years later in the same location, they are still considered one of the best home style family restaurants serving a variety of home cooked dishes. My grandparents took me here for onion rings and fried chicken when I was only 6 years old. My kids love this place and every time I hit Wichita I take my colleagues here for the best prime rib dinners in town. The chicken fried steaks are pretty good as well. Best prices in town. Where can you get a luncheon prime rib dinner for $7?
2. Chances R (York, Nebraska)
Best Sunday Brunch I have ever eaten. Great food. The fried chicken, masked potatoes, creamed peas, salad bar and carrot cake are worth the four hour drive northward in a snowstorm to eat here. It's a special place where I ate immediately after Brian was born. Many memories made here. Got my first job in education sitting in a booth at 1:00 a.m. talking with the York College Academic Dean in 1985.
3. AQ Chicken (Springdale, Arkansas)
Best fried chicken in the world. Debbie and I ate here on our honeymoon and eat here once a year on our annual golf vacations. I like to buy a 10 piece bucket, a large order of onion rings, homemade rolls and go to the park and get sick trying to eat everything. Great lemon pepper seasoning. If you go through Northwest Arkansas, it is a must stop.
4. Bubba's BBQ (Eureka Springs, Arkansas)
Best BBQ ribs I have ever eaten. Not a fancy place. Seats about 35-40 people, but many presidents and celebrities have eaten Bubba's famous ribs. Great stop after 65 holes of golf. You can split the order of ribs with another person. Large portions of food.
5. Papasitos (Arlington, Texas)
Great Mexican food and the home made tortillas are the best. It's so good that I usually eat there two days in a row when I get to the Dallas area. Several locations in Texas.
1. Town and Country (Wichita, Kansas)
When Town and Country restaurant opened its doors in 1957, it was one of the best family style diners in the Wichita area. 48 years later in the same location, they are still considered one of the best home style family restaurants serving a variety of home cooked dishes. My grandparents took me here for onion rings and fried chicken when I was only 6 years old. My kids love this place and every time I hit Wichita I take my colleagues here for the best prime rib dinners in town. The chicken fried steaks are pretty good as well. Best prices in town. Where can you get a luncheon prime rib dinner for $7?
2. Chances R (York, Nebraska)
Best Sunday Brunch I have ever eaten. Great food. The fried chicken, masked potatoes, creamed peas, salad bar and carrot cake are worth the four hour drive northward in a snowstorm to eat here. It's a special place where I ate immediately after Brian was born. Many memories made here. Got my first job in education sitting in a booth at 1:00 a.m. talking with the York College Academic Dean in 1985.
3. AQ Chicken (Springdale, Arkansas)
Best fried chicken in the world. Debbie and I ate here on our honeymoon and eat here once a year on our annual golf vacations. I like to buy a 10 piece bucket, a large order of onion rings, homemade rolls and go to the park and get sick trying to eat everything. Great lemon pepper seasoning. If you go through Northwest Arkansas, it is a must stop.
4. Bubba's BBQ (Eureka Springs, Arkansas)
Best BBQ ribs I have ever eaten. Not a fancy place. Seats about 35-40 people, but many presidents and celebrities have eaten Bubba's famous ribs. Great stop after 65 holes of golf. You can split the order of ribs with another person. Large portions of food.
5. Papasitos (Arlington, Texas)
Great Mexican food and the home made tortillas are the best. It's so good that I usually eat there two days in a row when I get to the Dallas area. Several locations in Texas.
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
A Prayer for Our Nation
You Have Our Attention, Lord
Prayer offered by Max Lucado
10/4/2008
Dear God:
Our friends lost their house
The co-worker lost her job
The couple next door lost their retirement
It seems that everyone is losing their footing
This scares us.
This bailout with billions.
These rumblings of depression.
These headlines: ominous, thunderous-“Going Broke!” “Going Down!” “Going Under!” “What Next?”
What is next?
We’re listening.
And we’re admitting: You were right.
You told us this would happen.
You shot straight about loving stuff and worshipping money.
Greed will break your heart, you warned.
Money will love you and leave you.
Don’t put your hope in riches that are so uncertain.
You were right.
Money is a fickle lover and we just got dumped.
We were wrong to spend what we didn’t have,Wrong to neglect prayer and ignore the poor,Wrong to think we ever earned a dime.
We didn’t.
You gave it.
And now, tell us Father, are you taking it?
We’re listening.
And we’re praying.
Could you make something good out of this mess?
Of course you can.
You always have.
You led slaves out of slavery,Built temples out of ruins,Turned stormy waves into a glassy pond and water into sweet wine.
This disorder awaits your order.
So do we.
Through Christ,
Amen· • • • ·
God will always give what is right to his people who cry to him night and day, and he will not be slow to answer them. (Lk. 18:7 NCV)
Prayer offered by Max Lucado
10/4/2008
Dear God:
Our friends lost their house
The co-worker lost her job
The couple next door lost their retirement
It seems that everyone is losing their footing
This scares us.
This bailout with billions.
These rumblings of depression.
These headlines: ominous, thunderous-“Going Broke!” “Going Down!” “Going Under!” “What Next?”
What is next?
We’re listening.
And we’re admitting: You were right.
You told us this would happen.
You shot straight about loving stuff and worshipping money.
Greed will break your heart, you warned.
Money will love you and leave you.
Don’t put your hope in riches that are so uncertain.
You were right.
Money is a fickle lover and we just got dumped.
We were wrong to spend what we didn’t have,Wrong to neglect prayer and ignore the poor,Wrong to think we ever earned a dime.
We didn’t.
You gave it.
And now, tell us Father, are you taking it?
We’re listening.
And we’re praying.
Could you make something good out of this mess?
Of course you can.
You always have.
You led slaves out of slavery,Built temples out of ruins,Turned stormy waves into a glassy pond and water into sweet wine.
This disorder awaits your order.
So do we.
Through Christ,
Amen· • • • ·
God will always give what is right to his people who cry to him night and day, and he will not be slow to answer them. (Lk. 18:7 NCV)
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Veterans Day
Whereas it has long been our customs to commemorate November 11, the anniversary of the ending of World War I, by paying tribute to the heroes of that tragic struggle and by rededicating ourselves to the cause of peace; and
Whereas in the intervening years the United States has been involved in two other great military conflicts, which have added millions of veterans living and dead to the honor rolls of this Nation; and
Whereas the Congress passed a concurrent resolution on June 4, 1926 (44 Stat. 1982), calling for the observance of November 11 with appropriate ceremonies, and later provided in an act approved May 13, 1938 (52 Stat. 351), that the eleventh of November should be a legal holiday and should be known as Armistice Day; and
Whereas, in order to expand the significance of that commemoration and in order that a grateful Nation might pay appropriate homage to the veterans of all its wars who have contributed so much to the preservation of this Nation, the Congress, by an act approved June 1, 1954 (68 Stat. 168), changed the name of the holiday to Veterans Day:
Now, Therefore, I, Dwight D. Eisenhower, President of the United States of America, do hereby call upon all of our citizens to observe Thursday, November 11, 1954, as Veterans Day. On that day let us solemnly remember the sacrifices of all those who fought so valiantly, on the seas, in the air, and on foreign shores, to preserve our heritage of freedom, and let us reconsecrate ourselves to the task of promoting an enduring peace so that their efforts shall not have been in vain.
I also direct the appropriate officials of the Government to arrange for the display of the flag of the United States on all public buildings on Veterans Day.
In order to insure proper and widespread observance of this anniversary, all veterans, all veterans' organizations, and the entire citizenry will wish to join hands in the common purpose.
Toward this end, I am designating the Administrator of Veterans' Affairs as Chairman of a Veterans Day National Committee, which shall include such other persons as the Chairman may select, and which will coordinate at the national level necessary planning for the observance. I am also requesting the heads of all departments and agencies of the Executive branch of the Government to assist the National Committee in every way possible.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand and cause the Seal of the United States of America to be affixed.
Done at the City of Washington this eighth day of October in the Year of our Lord nineteen hundred and fifty-four, and of the Independence of the United States of America the one hundred and seventy-ninth.
DWIGHT D. EISENHOWER
Monday, November 10, 2008
Lincoln to Obama
Been thinking about the historical significance of the 2008 election. As for President-elect Obama we now know he is God’s man for this time. Who knows what our God is up to? Whatever it is, I’m confident it’s a better plan than anything I could come up with. We as believers need to trust the King of Kings and Lord of Lords.
Finally, to President Abraham Lincoln. Wouldn’t he be so proud right now? Just think- President Obama could choose to sleep in the room President Lincoln signed the Emancipation Proclamation (now the Lincoln Bedroom) in 1863. I think that’s kind of neat to think about it.
We have come so far as a nation…………………
Finally, to President Abraham Lincoln. Wouldn’t he be so proud right now? Just think- President Obama could choose to sleep in the room President Lincoln signed the Emancipation Proclamation (now the Lincoln Bedroom) in 1863. I think that’s kind of neat to think about it.
We have come so far as a nation…………………
Saturday, November 08, 2008
Order of Worship
Welcome/Announcements
47 Holy, Holy, Holy (Verse 1 Only)
100 Holy Ground
64 I Worship You Almighty God (Sing Twice)
155 Highest Place
Prayer
In Christ Alone
Communion
Contribution
559 The Joy of the Lord
Message
Invitation 666 I Am Thine O Lord (Verse 1 and 4 Only)
Announcements
That’s Why We Praise Him
Closing Prayer
47 Holy, Holy, Holy (Verse 1 Only)
100 Holy Ground
64 I Worship You Almighty God (Sing Twice)
155 Highest Place
Prayer
In Christ Alone
Communion
Contribution
559 The Joy of the Lord
Message
Invitation 666 I Am Thine O Lord (Verse 1 and 4 Only)
Announcements
That’s Why We Praise Him
Closing Prayer
Thursday, November 06, 2008
Craig
Many people ask me how Craig is doing. Great. School is going well. He loves where he goes to church and his weekly Bible study. He loves his job at Ugg Australia. This is a pic of his co-workers at one of the work parties by Glamour Magazine and St. Judes. Craig, don't forget my houseshoes for Christmas!
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
Congratulations Craig
This was Craig's first election and his candidate won. Both my boy's are very political but Craig has a love for the process itself. As a sophomore at FIT-New York he was elected to political office as a sophomore. He was so excited after last nights results he called me (woke me up) to talk about the possible hope and change our country could see during the next four years. I hope you are right Craig. We need a country that is united and one that can begin the healing process in a variety of areas. President-Elect Obama, our prayers are with you this morning as you begin to make the needed changes for our society.
Tuesday, November 04, 2008
Monday, November 03, 2008
Weekend Volleyball
Debbie and I spent the past three days at the Class 3A State Volleyball Tournament in Salina. We enjoyed watching the OCHS Girl's play Friday night. We had a large Osage City turnout for Halloween night but just couldn't get on the winning track. We lost to Jeff North, Hoisington and Phillipsburg. That knocked us out of the two day tournament early.
Saturday we spent shopping and enjoying the beautiful 80 degree weather in Salina.
Sunday we worshipped with some of our friends that live in Salina. We enjoyed the powerful worship experience.
It was nice to get away but always nice to get home............
Saturday we spent shopping and enjoying the beautiful 80 degree weather in Salina.
Sunday we worshipped with some of our friends that live in Salina. We enjoyed the powerful worship experience.
It was nice to get away but always nice to get home............
Friday, October 31, 2008
Thursday, October 30, 2008
What A Church Should Be Like
This is a great example of an active Church reaching out.....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERksOq9fU0E
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERksOq9fU0E
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
You Tube Wednesday
If you haven't seen this... well, consider this your introduction to the craze that is sweeping the nation. 1.1 million viewers can't be wrong. Jesus is My Friend!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-NOZU2iPA8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-NOZU2iPA8
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Happy Birthday Mike
Happy Birthday to my little brother. My fishing partner and good friend. I enjoy our early Saturday morning philosophical discussions down at the river. I hope you have a great day!
Monday, October 27, 2008
Keeping Up With Today's Younger Generation
The living church is constantly challenged to stay in tune with the culture it tries to reach. This can be a burden. How do we remain true to the Bible we’ve properly hallowed while adapting to new things which bring perpetual disturbance to the patterns of the long-term members? An immediate problem arises when the established church puts a learning freeze on the Bible and then maintains a protectionism of the thirty-five verses it prefers. This is dishonest and much of practicing Christianity is just that. This brings me to the 25 year olds and younger. Their bent is experiential. This factor is why American Idol has the viewers text their vote ultimately deciding the winner. Today’s younger generation wants in on the action. One may note cable news systems asking for your text in response to a question. Experiential. This is a huge challenge to the “sit still and be quiet” established church when truly wishing to draw today’s young. To them, church has no experience except one: pure boredom.
We churches need to get a grip on this dilemma because it isn’t the culture that needs to adjust. The church of the Bible is anything but dull. It is robust, surprising, mysterious, and often noisy. The church of Christ was the most happening place in the community. Such isn’t the case now. We have studied and organized ourselves into “the” most boring venue on our streets. Often a hives outbreak causes more community response. If you happen to be one who truly ponders how to bring life to your congregation, a start would be to bring life to your congregation. Put life into it. Quit focusing upon order so much and avail activity (experience) to your membership. God’s people are basically creative but some churches stifle the gifts within. Sit down, be quiet, and say amen is not the picture of the early church. Maybe we should change us.
Terry Rush
We churches need to get a grip on this dilemma because it isn’t the culture that needs to adjust. The church of the Bible is anything but dull. It is robust, surprising, mysterious, and often noisy. The church of Christ was the most happening place in the community. Such isn’t the case now. We have studied and organized ourselves into “the” most boring venue on our streets. Often a hives outbreak causes more community response. If you happen to be one who truly ponders how to bring life to your congregation, a start would be to bring life to your congregation. Put life into it. Quit focusing upon order so much and avail activity (experience) to your membership. God’s people are basically creative but some churches stifle the gifts within. Sit down, be quiet, and say amen is not the picture of the early church. Maybe we should change us.
Terry Rush
Saturday, October 25, 2008
Order of Worship
Welcome
Isaiah 9:6 (NIV)
Wonderful (2x)
162 All Hail the Power of Jesus name (vs 1,2,4)
You are Holy
Philippians 2:5-11 (from New Century Version)
221 Jesus, Name above All Names
222 There's Something About that Name
579 Praise the name of Jesus
Prayer
John 6:48-51
Wonderful Merciful Savior
Communion
Collection
Matthew 16:13-16
180 Jesus Is Lord
590 Jesus is all the world to Me
Lesson
943 Do You Know My Jesus
Announcements
602 Nobody Fills My Heart Like Jesus
Prayer
Isaiah 9:6 (NIV)
Wonderful (2x)
162 All Hail the Power of Jesus name (vs 1,2,4)
You are Holy
Philippians 2:5-11 (from New Century Version)
221 Jesus, Name above All Names
222 There's Something About that Name
579 Praise the name of Jesus
Prayer
John 6:48-51
Wonderful Merciful Savior
Communion
Collection
Matthew 16:13-16
180 Jesus Is Lord
590 Jesus is all the world to Me
Lesson
943 Do You Know My Jesus
Announcements
602 Nobody Fills My Heart Like Jesus
Prayer
Friday, October 24, 2008
Politics at Church
How involved should the church be in politics? My hunch is that most will be in the middle on this topic.
My personal view having a very political job, I believe the Church should stay out of the political arena. I don't want to hear any political messages being preached from any pulpit. I have God's Word that leads me in my decision making process. I don't need to hear someones opinion on who is better McCain, Obama or Nader on a Sunday morning.
It's sad to think that thousands of pulpits across America the past few months have been slamming candidates instead of worshipping God.
My personal view having a very political job, I believe the Church should stay out of the political arena. I don't want to hear any political messages being preached from any pulpit. I have God's Word that leads me in my decision making process. I don't need to hear someones opinion on who is better McCain, Obama or Nader on a Sunday morning.
It's sad to think that thousands of pulpits across America the past few months have been slamming candidates instead of worshipping God.
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Baggage
I really enjoyed the first lesson in the new series Baggage that Gary and Kevin introduced on Sunday evening.
So many people are burdened with a load of emotional “Baggage.” You know what “Baggage” is--it’s the stuff from our past that we carry around in our soul. It’s the words people said and the things people did that still haunt our minds and seem to limit our potential. It weighs us down. It crowds our relationships. It causes us to stumble through life.God wants to take the “Baggage” off our shoulders so we can be free from its bondage forever. Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matt. 11:28) The Lord invites us to come to Him and “check” our baggage once and for all.But how do we rid ourselves of the emotional pain, past memories and the addictive habits that come with “Baggage?”
More to come……………….
So many people are burdened with a load of emotional “Baggage.” You know what “Baggage” is--it’s the stuff from our past that we carry around in our soul. It’s the words people said and the things people did that still haunt our minds and seem to limit our potential. It weighs us down. It crowds our relationships. It causes us to stumble through life.God wants to take the “Baggage” off our shoulders so we can be free from its bondage forever. Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matt. 11:28) The Lord invites us to come to Him and “check” our baggage once and for all.But how do we rid ourselves of the emotional pain, past memories and the addictive habits that come with “Baggage?”
More to come……………….
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
The Bible and the Diamond Ring
A married lady was expecting a birthday gift from her husband. For many months she had admired a beautiful diamond ring in a showroom, and knowing her husband could afford it, she told him that was all she wanted. As her birthday approached, this lady awaited signs that her husband had purchased the diamond ring. Finally, on the morning of her birthday, her husband called her into his study.Her husband told her how proud he was to have such a good wife, and told her how much he loved her.He handed her a beautiful wrapped gift box. Curious, the wife opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible, with the wife's name embossed in gold. Angrily, she raised her voice to her husband and said, 'With all your money you give me a Bible?' And stormed out of the house, leaving her husband.
Many years passed and the lady was very successful in business. She managed to settle for a more beautiful house and a wonderful family, but realized her ex-husband was very old, and thought perhaps she should go to visit him. She had not seen him for many years. But before she could make arrangements, she received a telegramtelling her that her ex-husband had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to her. She needed to come back immediately and take care of things. When she arrived at her ex-husband's house, sudden sadness and regret filled her heart. She began to search through her ex-husband's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as she had left it years before. With tears, she opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. Her ex-husband had carefully underlined a verse, Matt 7:11, 'And if you, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more shall your Heavenly Father, who is in heaven, give what is good to those who ask Him?' As she read those words, a tiny package dropped from the back of the Bible. It had a diamond ring, with her name engraved on it -- the same diamond ring which she saw at the showroom. On the tag was the date of her birth, and the words.'LUV U ALWAYS'.
How many times do we miss God's blessings, because they are not packaged as we expected? Do not spoil what you have, by desiring what you have not; but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
Many years passed and the lady was very successful in business. She managed to settle for a more beautiful house and a wonderful family, but realized her ex-husband was very old, and thought perhaps she should go to visit him. She had not seen him for many years. But before she could make arrangements, she received a telegramtelling her that her ex-husband had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to her. She needed to come back immediately and take care of things. When she arrived at her ex-husband's house, sudden sadness and regret filled her heart. She began to search through her ex-husband's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as she had left it years before. With tears, she opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. Her ex-husband had carefully underlined a verse, Matt 7:11, 'And if you, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more shall your Heavenly Father, who is in heaven, give what is good to those who ask Him?' As she read those words, a tiny package dropped from the back of the Bible. It had a diamond ring, with her name engraved on it -- the same diamond ring which she saw at the showroom. On the tag was the date of her birth, and the words.'LUV U ALWAYS'.
How many times do we miss God's blessings, because they are not packaged as we expected? Do not spoil what you have, by desiring what you have not; but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
Monday, October 20, 2008
Happy Birthday Brian
23 years ago today, on a cold Sunday morning, in York, Nebraska, Brian Lee Carriger arrived to change our lives forever.
In about 4 months his life will really change as Allison becomes his wife. Enjoy your birthday trip to Edmond and Happy Birthday!
Love,
Dad
Saturday, October 18, 2008
Order of Worship
Announcements
Prayer
Worship Leader: Josh Yoho
440 Glorify the Lord with Me (sing through twice)
417 Where He Leads I'll Follow (vs. 1 & 3)
410 He Leadeth Me (1 & 2)
Prayer
278 Victory Chant
269 Thomas' Song
344 Low in the Grave He Lay
Lord's Supper
Offering
570 A Beautiful Life
Lesson
Inv.- 218 Blessed Jesus
Other Announcements
Closing song- 779 I Love You, Lord
Prayer
Worship Leader: Josh Yoho
440 Glorify the Lord with Me (sing through twice)
417 Where He Leads I'll Follow (vs. 1 & 3)
410 He Leadeth Me (1 & 2)
Prayer
278 Victory Chant
269 Thomas' Song
344 Low in the Grave He Lay
Lord's Supper
Offering
570 A Beautiful Life
Lesson
Inv.- 218 Blessed Jesus
Other Announcements
Closing song- 779 I Love You, Lord
Friday, October 17, 2008
A Friday Prayer
Occasionally
Lord, most of all today I’m thankful
that you keep our hearts tender enough to see our sins—at least occasionally.
Because if it were left up to us, Lord,
we would most likely go on forever deluding ourselves about our goodness and our badness.
We would much rather pay attention to our struggles and conflicts
than confess our sins.
And you know how much more fun it is for us to describe
embroider and proclaimeach other’s sins than to admit our own.
Were you watching and listening, Lord,
when we decided—
maybe thoughtlessly—
to rid our conversations
our teaching
our preaching
our worship
and our practice
of any thought or reference to our sins?
Did you notice when we stopped confessing our sins?
When we stopped asking for your forgiveness?
And each other’s forgiveness?
Grant me, and each of us, Lord, the grace to see ourselves in light of your truth.
Deliver us from our daily temptation to excuse ourselves from the
cleansing rituals of confession and repentance.
Deliver us, O Lord, from
spiritual make-believe.
Love us into light even when, mostly when
we would rather linger in the darkness.
Shine your bright, revealing, blinding
will on us so we may begin to see ourselves
as you see us. Then, please, Lord, rescue us
from ourselves. Have mercy on us, O Lord,
and forgive the sins we see and confess.
Via Highland Oaks COC
Lord, most of all today I’m thankful
that you keep our hearts tender enough to see our sins—at least occasionally.
Because if it were left up to us, Lord,
we would most likely go on forever deluding ourselves about our goodness and our badness.
We would much rather pay attention to our struggles and conflicts
than confess our sins.
And you know how much more fun it is for us to describe
embroider and proclaimeach other’s sins than to admit our own.
Were you watching and listening, Lord,
when we decided—
maybe thoughtlessly—
to rid our conversations
our teaching
our preaching
our worship
and our practice
of any thought or reference to our sins?
Did you notice when we stopped confessing our sins?
When we stopped asking for your forgiveness?
And each other’s forgiveness?
Grant me, and each of us, Lord, the grace to see ourselves in light of your truth.
Deliver us from our daily temptation to excuse ourselves from the
cleansing rituals of confession and repentance.
Deliver us, O Lord, from
spiritual make-believe.
Love us into light even when, mostly when
we would rather linger in the darkness.
Shine your bright, revealing, blinding
will on us so we may begin to see ourselves
as you see us. Then, please, Lord, rescue us
from ourselves. Have mercy on us, O Lord,
and forgive the sins we see and confess.
Via Highland Oaks COC
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
The Open-Minded Christian
The Bible makes it clear that many people rejected Jesus because he presented new teachings that did not fit within the context of their traditional doctrines. Only people with an open mind could recognize Jesus and accept his teachings. We have seen this in our study of the book of Mark that the scribes and the Pharisees were not open-minded, and in their arrogance they rejected the Living Christ when he stood before them in the flesh.
Over the years I have realized the importance of having an open mind and avoiding the arrogance of thinking your religious teaching can tell you everything there is to know about God, Jesus and spirituality.
One might say that Jesus came to renew religion and to pull the people of his time out of their mental boxes, their stifled, rigid approach to religion. Perhaps it is the role of the Living Christ to always pull people out of their rigidity, to challenge them to expand their understanding and to think outside the box?
When I look at Christianity today, I see clearly that many modern Christians have become as rigid and stifled as the people who rejected Jesus. I pray that I will always search the scriptures and be open to new ideas and keep an open mind when I talk with those that are Christians but might not necessarily think the same way that I do.
Over the years I have realized the importance of having an open mind and avoiding the arrogance of thinking your religious teaching can tell you everything there is to know about God, Jesus and spirituality.
One might say that Jesus came to renew religion and to pull the people of his time out of their mental boxes, their stifled, rigid approach to religion. Perhaps it is the role of the Living Christ to always pull people out of their rigidity, to challenge them to expand their understanding and to think outside the box?
When I look at Christianity today, I see clearly that many modern Christians have become as rigid and stifled as the people who rejected Jesus. I pray that I will always search the scriptures and be open to new ideas and keep an open mind when I talk with those that are Christians but might not necessarily think the same way that I do.
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Monday, October 13, 2008
Don't Lose Focus
Don't Lose Focus
by Mike Barres
Years ago, I realized that it is really hard for me to watch television and talk with my wife. I would begin to talk with her, and then when she started talking to me, I would begin watching the television again. I would lose my focus in the conversation. Now when we begin to talk, we turn the television off.
It's hard to keep our focus on the important things in our lives -- conversations with our spouses is just one example, here are a couple of others that may be even more dangerous.
In the news recently, a story mentioned the possibility of a train engineer using his phone for text messaging just prior to that train wrecking. This seems to be a common and growing problem with text messaging. There have been problems with text messaging during school by students. There have been reports of people text messaging while they are driving -- some states have laws that prevent using cell phones while driving for calling or for "texting." These kinds of things make it difficult to stay focused on the task at hand -- driving safely. It is easy to get distracted.
Recently a friend told me that he was driving down a road that ran along a river. Looking out of his window, he saw someone catching a fish. He was so interested in the fishing that he wrecked his truck. He lost his focus on his driving.
The Holy Spirit has said:
Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God (Hebrews 12:1-2 NKJV).
The phrase that says, "looking to Jesus" is often translated "fixing our eyes on Jesus." We must keep our focus on Him. We can't lose focus on the Lord!
But it is so easy to take our eyes off of Jesus. So many things can distract us these days. We are reminded to "lay aside every weight and the sin which so easily ensnares us." Losing our focus causes us to get tangled up in things that we shouldn't and worry about things we over which we have no control.
The consequences of my friend wrecking his truck were serious and could have been deadly, all because he lost focus. The same is true with each of our lives. Let's keep our focus on Jesus. Let's take our relationship and walk with Him seriously.
We must learn to discern the distractions that the devil brings along and ignore them and say "No!" to them. These distractions may be sin, they might just be activities that take us away from things that we know that the Lord wants us to do, or they could be worries about things going on around us. However, we must stay focused on Jesus, His Word, and His Kingdom!
"But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness ..." (Matthew 6:33), "looking unto Jesus" (Hebrews 12:2).
http://www.heartlight.org/articles/200810/20081011_focus.html
(c) 2008 Mike Barres
by Mike Barres
Years ago, I realized that it is really hard for me to watch television and talk with my wife. I would begin to talk with her, and then when she started talking to me, I would begin watching the television again. I would lose my focus in the conversation. Now when we begin to talk, we turn the television off.
It's hard to keep our focus on the important things in our lives -- conversations with our spouses is just one example, here are a couple of others that may be even more dangerous.
In the news recently, a story mentioned the possibility of a train engineer using his phone for text messaging just prior to that train wrecking. This seems to be a common and growing problem with text messaging. There have been problems with text messaging during school by students. There have been reports of people text messaging while they are driving -- some states have laws that prevent using cell phones while driving for calling or for "texting." These kinds of things make it difficult to stay focused on the task at hand -- driving safely. It is easy to get distracted.
Recently a friend told me that he was driving down a road that ran along a river. Looking out of his window, he saw someone catching a fish. He was so interested in the fishing that he wrecked his truck. He lost his focus on his driving.
The Holy Spirit has said:
Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God (Hebrews 12:1-2 NKJV).
The phrase that says, "looking to Jesus" is often translated "fixing our eyes on Jesus." We must keep our focus on Him. We can't lose focus on the Lord!
But it is so easy to take our eyes off of Jesus. So many things can distract us these days. We are reminded to "lay aside every weight and the sin which so easily ensnares us." Losing our focus causes us to get tangled up in things that we shouldn't and worry about things we over which we have no control.
The consequences of my friend wrecking his truck were serious and could have been deadly, all because he lost focus. The same is true with each of our lives. Let's keep our focus on Jesus. Let's take our relationship and walk with Him seriously.
We must learn to discern the distractions that the devil brings along and ignore them and say "No!" to them. These distractions may be sin, they might just be activities that take us away from things that we know that the Lord wants us to do, or they could be worries about things going on around us. However, we must stay focused on Jesus, His Word, and His Kingdom!
"But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness ..." (Matthew 6:33), "looking unto Jesus" (Hebrews 12:2).
http://www.heartlight.org/articles/200810/20081011_focus.html
(c) 2008 Mike Barres
Friday, October 10, 2008
Order of Worship
Friend Day
October 12, 2008
Welcome/Announcements (Roger Hamm)
Scripture Reading: Psalm 18:1-3 (Kevin Johnston)
63 I Will Call Upon the Lord
103 He Has Made Me Glad
Prayer
Scripture Reading: 1 John 4:9-11 (Kevin Johnston)
379 If That Isn’t Love
Communion
Contribution
Kevin Johnston:
Scripture: Luke 18:15-17 People were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them; and when the disciples saw it, they sternly ordered them not to do it. But Jesus called for them and said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of God belongs. Truly I tell you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it."
Scripture: Matthew 18:1-5 At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, " Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" He called a child, whom he put among the, and said, "Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever becomes humble like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me."
Children Songs
Dismiss 2x2
Song Jesus You’re My Firm Foundation
Message The Feeding of the 5000 (Evan Burdan)
Invitation: 781 Thank You, Lord
Announcements (Roger Hamm)
Closing Prayer
October 12, 2008
Welcome/Announcements (Roger Hamm)
Scripture Reading: Psalm 18:1-3 (Kevin Johnston)
63 I Will Call Upon the Lord
103 He Has Made Me Glad
Prayer
Scripture Reading: 1 John 4:9-11 (Kevin Johnston)
379 If That Isn’t Love
Communion
Contribution
Kevin Johnston:
Scripture: Luke 18:15-17 People were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them; and when the disciples saw it, they sternly ordered them not to do it. But Jesus called for them and said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of God belongs. Truly I tell you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it."
Scripture: Matthew 18:1-5 At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, " Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" He called a child, whom he put among the, and said, "Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever becomes humble like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me."
Children Songs
Dismiss 2x2
Song Jesus You’re My Firm Foundation
Message The Feeding of the 5000 (Evan Burdan)
Invitation: 781 Thank You, Lord
Announcements (Roger Hamm)
Closing Prayer
Thursday, October 09, 2008
Friend Day Sunday
Dear Central Member:
Have you seen the cartoon of the two little girls at the bus stop, chatting as they hold their personal planners? One says: "Okay, I'll move ballet back an hour, reschedule, gymnastics, and cancel piano . . . you shift your violin lesson to Thursday and skip soccer practice . . . that gives us from 3:15 to 3:45 on Wednesday the 16th to play."It’s sad that our lives have been dictated by palm pilots, personal planners and schedules. The technology and information age has forced our society to run at a rapid pace throughout the day where we don’t have any time to just slow down and talk and visit with friends, neighbors and sometimes even our own families.Jesus had time to stop and visit with people. In His fast paced life, he took the time to meet the needs of others.On Sunday, October 12, Central will be celebrating Bring A Friend Day, a day set aside to invite a friend to worship. Spend some time this week praying for an individual that you would like to invite to worship and class on that day. Then take the time and slow down and visit with that person and allow our enthusiasm and the power of God in our lives to tell them about the great family at the Central Church of Christ.
We will begin Friend Day with Bible Class at 9:15 a.m. A short period of fellowship at 10:00 a.m., then worship beginning at 10:30 a.m. We will have a cookout at noon (hamburgers/hotdogs provided). Please bring side dishes to share with the family and friends. After our lunch, we will have a short devotional around 1:00 p.m. to end the day.Be in prayer for Friend Day as well as be in prayer, also, for our friends.
May God be glorified in our efforts!
The Elders of the Central Church of Christ
Have you seen the cartoon of the two little girls at the bus stop, chatting as they hold their personal planners? One says: "Okay, I'll move ballet back an hour, reschedule, gymnastics, and cancel piano . . . you shift your violin lesson to Thursday and skip soccer practice . . . that gives us from 3:15 to 3:45 on Wednesday the 16th to play."It’s sad that our lives have been dictated by palm pilots, personal planners and schedules. The technology and information age has forced our society to run at a rapid pace throughout the day where we don’t have any time to just slow down and talk and visit with friends, neighbors and sometimes even our own families.Jesus had time to stop and visit with people. In His fast paced life, he took the time to meet the needs of others.On Sunday, October 12, Central will be celebrating Bring A Friend Day, a day set aside to invite a friend to worship. Spend some time this week praying for an individual that you would like to invite to worship and class on that day. Then take the time and slow down and visit with that person and allow our enthusiasm and the power of God in our lives to tell them about the great family at the Central Church of Christ.
We will begin Friend Day with Bible Class at 9:15 a.m. A short period of fellowship at 10:00 a.m., then worship beginning at 10:30 a.m. We will have a cookout at noon (hamburgers/hotdogs provided). Please bring side dishes to share with the family and friends. After our lunch, we will have a short devotional around 1:00 p.m. to end the day.Be in prayer for Friend Day as well as be in prayer, also, for our friends.
May God be glorified in our efforts!
The Elders of the Central Church of Christ
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
"He Came Home, But..........."
When the prodigal came home … there was a hug, a kiss, a pair of sandals, a robe, a ring, a fatted calf, and a celebration waiting on him. I am sure that his welcome home included a hot bath and a haircut. By the time of the “Welcome Home Son” party began, his makeover was complete … no more stench or stain from the pig pen, only the haunting memories in the runaway’s heart.
However, sometimes when the prodigal comes home, a hot bath and a haircut will not remove the stains or consequences of those wasteful years. Sometimes … there are legal consequences that remain on account even when the sin consequences are blotted out.
How do you “deal” with that brother?
Well, first … you treat him how the Father would. Welcome him home! Celebrate that the one that was lost has been found … the one that was dead is now alive. We want this brother to KNOW that we agree with God … and that we are going to “forgive” him … “comfort” him … and “reaffirm” our love him, so that he will not be overcome by “overmuch sorrow”.
Then, of course, we want to “Barnabas” him. Barnabas means “son of encouragement”, and that is exactly what Barnabas did for Saul … as he helped him find his place in this new fellowship.
Consider (Acts 9:26-31, NIV): “When he came to Jerusalem, he tried to join the disciples, but they were all afraid of him, not believing that he really was a disciple. 27 But Barnabas took him and brought him to the apostles.” In being Saul’s advocate Barnabas helped the disciples to begin to trust this new brother, reassuring them that he (Barnabas) believed that Saul really was a disciple … and he helped Saul by standing with him, reassuring him that he (Barnabas) believed it and that he would help Saul convince the rest of the disciples.
Such an encourager - advocate - friend is needed by any brother or sister, who is coming home - but especially by those who have some residual consequences. Jesus accepts that role (1John2:1-2) … and would be pleased if we would see fit to do the same.
Now … such a role is not without risks, because the disciples still might not trust … and the prodigal might falter and fail again. Therefore, the “Barnabas brother” must be one who is strong in the Lord (for the Lord) … for it is the strong that “bear with the failings of the weak“. And though it is a difficult task and even a treacherous place - “caught in the middle” - it is needed by more people than we want to acknowledge. They wait outside the fellowship - outside the celebration - waiting for someone to “Barnabas” them inside.
Rex Boyles
However, sometimes when the prodigal comes home, a hot bath and a haircut will not remove the stains or consequences of those wasteful years. Sometimes … there are legal consequences that remain on account even when the sin consequences are blotted out.
How do you “deal” with that brother?
Well, first … you treat him how the Father would. Welcome him home! Celebrate that the one that was lost has been found … the one that was dead is now alive. We want this brother to KNOW that we agree with God … and that we are going to “forgive” him … “comfort” him … and “reaffirm” our love him, so that he will not be overcome by “overmuch sorrow”.
Then, of course, we want to “Barnabas” him. Barnabas means “son of encouragement”, and that is exactly what Barnabas did for Saul … as he helped him find his place in this new fellowship.
Consider (Acts 9:26-31, NIV): “When he came to Jerusalem, he tried to join the disciples, but they were all afraid of him, not believing that he really was a disciple. 27 But Barnabas took him and brought him to the apostles.” In being Saul’s advocate Barnabas helped the disciples to begin to trust this new brother, reassuring them that he (Barnabas) believed that Saul really was a disciple … and he helped Saul by standing with him, reassuring him that he (Barnabas) believed it and that he would help Saul convince the rest of the disciples.
Such an encourager - advocate - friend is needed by any brother or sister, who is coming home - but especially by those who have some residual consequences. Jesus accepts that role (1John2:1-2) … and would be pleased if we would see fit to do the same.
Now … such a role is not without risks, because the disciples still might not trust … and the prodigal might falter and fail again. Therefore, the “Barnabas brother” must be one who is strong in the Lord (for the Lord) … for it is the strong that “bear with the failings of the weak“. And though it is a difficult task and even a treacherous place - “caught in the middle” - it is needed by more people than we want to acknowledge. They wait outside the fellowship - outside the celebration - waiting for someone to “Barnabas” them inside.
Rex Boyles
Monday, October 06, 2008
Stats
This year's Pew Religious Forum study is out, and it found:
- 57% Evangelicals who said they believe many religions can lead to eternal life
- 68% Americans who said there is more than one true way to interpret the teachings of their religion
- 14% Americans who cite religious beliefs as the main influence on their political thinking
SOURCE: Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life
Friday, October 03, 2008
Knowledge of Ourselves
Knowledge of Ourselves
by Lynn Anderson
Heartlight
You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things. Now we know that God’s judgment against those who do such things is based on truth. So when you, a mere man, pass judgment on them and yet do the same things, do you think you will escape God’s judgment? Or do you show contempt for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing that God’s kindness leads you toward repentance? But because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath against yourself for the day of God’s wrath, when his righteous judgment will be revealed.
(Romans 2:1-6)
Dear God,
It is true that people are usually the quickest to judge others over the things they themselves are likely to do? I knew a man who was continually condemning President Clinton over his infidelity and indiscretions, yet it later came out that he had several affairs and ended up leaving his wife and children for another woman.
There is a saying that I like: “Our suspicions of others are aroused by the knowledge of ourselves.” So as I inspect myself, over what types of things do I tend to judge others, and what is it that is in me that causes me to do this? I guess there are two things that I judge people most about. First, I judge people if I perceive them to be too religiously zealous and not tolerant enough of others who aren’t at their spiritual level. I am also judgmental towards those who ignore their families in the name of wealth, achievement, power, or even God.
“Our suspicions of others are aroused by the knowledge of ourselves.” As I think about these things, I think they come more from my personal wounds and experiences than they come from my own tendency to sin in this area. At the same time, my tendency is to rebel against both of these areas in my life to an extent that I become obsessed with not being like them and I pursue the sin in the other direction. For example, I realize now that one of my sins is that I still sometimes try to feel good about myself and the man I am by making sure that my family adores me. I will sacrifice and do whatever it takes to pursue their love for me. But what ends up happening time and again is that I end up finding my self-worth in their love for me and I make myself my God instead of you. Others look for their self-worth in work, church, civic involvement, etc. These are the people I judge. But I am as guilty as they are.
Father, give me a vision for loving these people. Give me a heart that reaches out to them and meets them where they are. Make me your representative to them. Help me to put aside my arrogance and approach them with your love and to see them with your eyes. Forgive me for pursuing my own glory. I want only yours.
by Lynn Anderson
Heartlight
You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things. Now we know that God’s judgment against those who do such things is based on truth. So when you, a mere man, pass judgment on them and yet do the same things, do you think you will escape God’s judgment? Or do you show contempt for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing that God’s kindness leads you toward repentance? But because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath against yourself for the day of God’s wrath, when his righteous judgment will be revealed.
(Romans 2:1-6)
Dear God,
It is true that people are usually the quickest to judge others over the things they themselves are likely to do? I knew a man who was continually condemning President Clinton over his infidelity and indiscretions, yet it later came out that he had several affairs and ended up leaving his wife and children for another woman.
There is a saying that I like: “Our suspicions of others are aroused by the knowledge of ourselves.” So as I inspect myself, over what types of things do I tend to judge others, and what is it that is in me that causes me to do this? I guess there are two things that I judge people most about. First, I judge people if I perceive them to be too religiously zealous and not tolerant enough of others who aren’t at their spiritual level. I am also judgmental towards those who ignore their families in the name of wealth, achievement, power, or even God.
“Our suspicions of others are aroused by the knowledge of ourselves.” As I think about these things, I think they come more from my personal wounds and experiences than they come from my own tendency to sin in this area. At the same time, my tendency is to rebel against both of these areas in my life to an extent that I become obsessed with not being like them and I pursue the sin in the other direction. For example, I realize now that one of my sins is that I still sometimes try to feel good about myself and the man I am by making sure that my family adores me. I will sacrifice and do whatever it takes to pursue their love for me. But what ends up happening time and again is that I end up finding my self-worth in their love for me and I make myself my God instead of you. Others look for their self-worth in work, church, civic involvement, etc. These are the people I judge. But I am as guilty as they are.
Father, give me a vision for loving these people. Give me a heart that reaches out to them and meets them where they are. Make me your representative to them. Help me to put aside my arrogance and approach them with your love and to see them with your eyes. Forgive me for pursuing my own glory. I want only yours.
Thursday, October 02, 2008
Fireproof
There is a new movie out that looks at divorce from a Christian perspective. Here is the plot from a new movie called Fireproof...................
Lt. Caleb Holt lives by the old firefighters adage: Never leave your partner behind. Inside burning buildings, it's his natural instinct. In the cooling embers of his marriage, it's another story.
After 7 years of marriage, Caleb and Catherine Holt have drifted so far apart that they are ready to move on without each other. Yet as they prepare to enter divorce proceedings, Caleb's dad asks his son to try an experiment: The Love Dare.
While hoping The Love Dare has nothing to do with his parents' new found faith, Caleb commits to the challenge. But can he attempt to love his wife while avoiding God's love for him? Will he be able to demonstrate love over and over again to a person that's no longer receptive to his love? Or is this just another marriage destined to go up in smoke?
FIREPROOF is the third feature film from Sherwood Pictures and the Kendrick Brothers—the creators of FACING THE GIANTS. FIREPROOF will have audiences of all ages laughing and crying as they are inspired by this story of perseverance and commitment.
http://www.outreach.com/print/articlem.asp?article_name=p-FireproofHome&sid=48E40F001F79E17F
Lt. Caleb Holt lives by the old firefighters adage: Never leave your partner behind. Inside burning buildings, it's his natural instinct. In the cooling embers of his marriage, it's another story.
After 7 years of marriage, Caleb and Catherine Holt have drifted so far apart that they are ready to move on without each other. Yet as they prepare to enter divorce proceedings, Caleb's dad asks his son to try an experiment: The Love Dare.
While hoping The Love Dare has nothing to do with his parents' new found faith, Caleb commits to the challenge. But can he attempt to love his wife while avoiding God's love for him? Will he be able to demonstrate love over and over again to a person that's no longer receptive to his love? Or is this just another marriage destined to go up in smoke?
FIREPROOF is the third feature film from Sherwood Pictures and the Kendrick Brothers—the creators of FACING THE GIANTS. FIREPROOF will have audiences of all ages laughing and crying as they are inspired by this story of perseverance and commitment.
http://www.outreach.com/print/articlem.asp?article_name=p-FireproofHome&sid=48E40F001F79E17F
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Maintenance or Mission?
This was posted on William Willimon's blog some time back. It was on my mind today.....
MAINTENANCE OR MISSION?
1. In measuring the effectiveness, the maintenance congregation asks, “How many pastoral visits are being made? The mission congregation asks, “How many disciples are being made?”
2. When contemplating some form of change, the maintenance congregation says, “If this proves upsetting to any of our members, we won’t do it.” The mission congregation says, “If this will help us reach someone on the outside, we will take the risk and do it.”
3. When thinking about change, the majority of members in a maintenance congregation ask, “How will this affect me?” The majority of members in the mission congregation ask, “Will this increase our ability to reach those outside?”
4. When thinking of its vision for ministry, the maintenance congregation says, “We have to be faithful to our past.” The mission congregation says, “We have to be faithful to our future.”
5. The pastor in the maintenance congregation says to the newcomer, “I’d like to introduce you to some of our members.” In the mission congregation the members say, “We’d like to introduce you to our pastor.”
6. When confronted with a legitimate pastoral concern, the pastor in the maintenance congregation asks, “How can I meet this need?” The pastor in the mission congregation asks, “How can this need be met?”
7. The maintenance congregation seeks to avoid conflict at any cost (but rarely succeeds). The mission congregation understands that conflict is the price of progress, and is willing to pay the price. It understands that it cannot take everyone with it. This causes some grief, but it does not keep it from doing what needs to be done.
8. The leadership style in the maintenance congregation is primarily managerial, where leaders try to keep everything in order and running smoothly. The leadership style in a mission congregation is primarily transformational, casting a vision of what can be, and marching off the map in order to bring the vision into reality.
9. The maintenance congregation is concerned with their congregation, its organizations and structure, its constitutions and committees. The mission congregation is concerned with the culture, with understanding how secular people think and what makes them tick. It tries to determine their needs and their points of accessibility to the Gospel.
10. When thinking about growth, the maintenance congregations asks, “How many Lutherans live within a twenty-minute drive of this church?” The mission congregation asks, “How many unchurched people live within a twenty-minute drive of this church?”
11. The maintenance congregation looks at the community and asks, “How can we get these people to support our congregation?” The mission congregation asks, “How can the Church support these people?”
12. The maintenance congregation thinks about how to save their congregation. The mission congregation thinks about how to reach the world.
MAINTENANCE OR MISSION?
1. In measuring the effectiveness, the maintenance congregation asks, “How many pastoral visits are being made? The mission congregation asks, “How many disciples are being made?”
2. When contemplating some form of change, the maintenance congregation says, “If this proves upsetting to any of our members, we won’t do it.” The mission congregation says, “If this will help us reach someone on the outside, we will take the risk and do it.”
3. When thinking about change, the majority of members in a maintenance congregation ask, “How will this affect me?” The majority of members in the mission congregation ask, “Will this increase our ability to reach those outside?”
4. When thinking of its vision for ministry, the maintenance congregation says, “We have to be faithful to our past.” The mission congregation says, “We have to be faithful to our future.”
5. The pastor in the maintenance congregation says to the newcomer, “I’d like to introduce you to some of our members.” In the mission congregation the members say, “We’d like to introduce you to our pastor.”
6. When confronted with a legitimate pastoral concern, the pastor in the maintenance congregation asks, “How can I meet this need?” The pastor in the mission congregation asks, “How can this need be met?”
7. The maintenance congregation seeks to avoid conflict at any cost (but rarely succeeds). The mission congregation understands that conflict is the price of progress, and is willing to pay the price. It understands that it cannot take everyone with it. This causes some grief, but it does not keep it from doing what needs to be done.
8. The leadership style in the maintenance congregation is primarily managerial, where leaders try to keep everything in order and running smoothly. The leadership style in a mission congregation is primarily transformational, casting a vision of what can be, and marching off the map in order to bring the vision into reality.
9. The maintenance congregation is concerned with their congregation, its organizations and structure, its constitutions and committees. The mission congregation is concerned with the culture, with understanding how secular people think and what makes them tick. It tries to determine their needs and their points of accessibility to the Gospel.
10. When thinking about growth, the maintenance congregations asks, “How many Lutherans live within a twenty-minute drive of this church?” The mission congregation asks, “How many unchurched people live within a twenty-minute drive of this church?”
11. The maintenance congregation looks at the community and asks, “How can we get these people to support our congregation?” The mission congregation asks, “How can the Church support these people?”
12. The maintenance congregation thinks about how to save their congregation. The mission congregation thinks about how to reach the world.
Monday, September 29, 2008
Decisions?
Have you ever had something that is on your heart and mind that you know is a faith step experience? One that changes everything you are doing? One that will change your life every day if you decide to go a certain direction.
During our lives we have those types of life-changing decisions that come our way. Many say no. A few say with God's guidance, I'm going with you down that path wherever you want to take me.
During our lives we have those types of life-changing decisions that come our way. Many say no. A few say with God's guidance, I'm going with you down that path wherever you want to take me.
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Tolerating Pain in Leadership
One of my favorite articles that I pass on to individuals often....................................
Tolerating Pain in Leadership
John Maxwell
There are many keys to being an effective leader.
In order to be an effective leader you have to be able to tolerate pain. Your own pain as well as the pain of others. Sometimes others will inflict pain upon you. You must absorb and carry it forward in order to lead. Sometimes you will be called upon to inflict pain on others for their own good or for the good of the organization you lead. If you don’t think leaders inflict pain, then go make a decision and see if anyone yelps. Sometimes you will inflict pain upon yourself when you inflict pain on others because you care so much about those whom you are leading.
Without a doubt, one of the hardest things to do as a leader is to watch people we love squirm with emotional pain because of a position we’ve taken. Most of us end up caving sooner or later and we sheepishly reverse our position or change our direction in order to dull the pain and keep the peace.
Research indicates that the reason most churches are struggling to move forward in any kind of discernible way is because their leadership is spending all their time and energy trying to avoid pain. They think the absence of pain is a sign of good leadership. Making sure no one gets hurt may be a win for a bank robber (Put your hands in the air and do what you’re told and no one gets hurt), but it’s a terrible way of judging how well we’re doing as leaders.
All pain avoidance does is delay the inevitable, which is . . .pain.
Leaders who try to avoid pain will someday be confronted with the worst pain of all, the awareness that the end result of their perpetual pain avoidance is the collapse of the organization they were supposed to be leading.
Are you called to lead? If so, and if you’re not ready to experience and tolerate some pain, then please say no to the call. Whatever organization you’re being called to lead will be better off without you in leadership. If you’re ready to deal with some pain, then step up and buckle in, because it’s gonna hurt.
Tolerating Pain in Leadership
John Maxwell
There are many keys to being an effective leader.
In order to be an effective leader you have to be able to tolerate pain. Your own pain as well as the pain of others. Sometimes others will inflict pain upon you. You must absorb and carry it forward in order to lead. Sometimes you will be called upon to inflict pain on others for their own good or for the good of the organization you lead. If you don’t think leaders inflict pain, then go make a decision and see if anyone yelps. Sometimes you will inflict pain upon yourself when you inflict pain on others because you care so much about those whom you are leading.
Without a doubt, one of the hardest things to do as a leader is to watch people we love squirm with emotional pain because of a position we’ve taken. Most of us end up caving sooner or later and we sheepishly reverse our position or change our direction in order to dull the pain and keep the peace.
Research indicates that the reason most churches are struggling to move forward in any kind of discernible way is because their leadership is spending all their time and energy trying to avoid pain. They think the absence of pain is a sign of good leadership. Making sure no one gets hurt may be a win for a bank robber (Put your hands in the air and do what you’re told and no one gets hurt), but it’s a terrible way of judging how well we’re doing as leaders.
All pain avoidance does is delay the inevitable, which is . . .pain.
Leaders who try to avoid pain will someday be confronted with the worst pain of all, the awareness that the end result of their perpetual pain avoidance is the collapse of the organization they were supposed to be leading.
Are you called to lead? If so, and if you’re not ready to experience and tolerate some pain, then please say no to the call. Whatever organization you’re being called to lead will be better off without you in leadership. If you’re ready to deal with some pain, then step up and buckle in, because it’s gonna hurt.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Attitude
Three people were at work on a construction site.
All were doing the same job, but when asked what his job was, the answer varied.
“Breaking rocks,” the first replied.
“Earning my living,” the second said.
“Helping to build a cathedral,” said the third.
All were doing the same job, but when asked what his job was, the answer varied.
“Breaking rocks,” the first replied.
“Earning my living,” the second said.
“Helping to build a cathedral,” said the third.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Jesus
Most of us are familiar with Matthew’s account of Jesus’ baptism. In his gospel, God makes a public announcement: “This is my son, whom I love. I am well pleased with him.”
But in Mark and Luke, these words come not so much as a public proclamation but as an affirmation and blessing from Father to Son: “You are my son. I love you. I am so pleased with you.”
I love N. T. Wright’s insights about this blessing:
“The whole Christian gospel could be summed up in this point: that when the living God looks at us, at every baptized and believing Christian, he says to us what he said to Jesus on that day. He sees us, not as we are in ourselves, but as we are in Jesus Christ. It sometimes seems impossible, especially to people who have never had this kind of support from their earthly parents, but it’s true: God looks at us, and says, ‘You are my dear, dear child; I’m delighted with you.’ Try reading that sentence slowly, with your own name at the start, and reflect quietly on God saying that to you, both at your baptism and every day since.”
Mike Cope
But in Mark and Luke, these words come not so much as a public proclamation but as an affirmation and blessing from Father to Son: “You are my son. I love you. I am so pleased with you.”
I love N. T. Wright’s insights about this blessing:
“The whole Christian gospel could be summed up in this point: that when the living God looks at us, at every baptized and believing Christian, he says to us what he said to Jesus on that day. He sees us, not as we are in ourselves, but as we are in Jesus Christ. It sometimes seems impossible, especially to people who have never had this kind of support from their earthly parents, but it’s true: God looks at us, and says, ‘You are my dear, dear child; I’m delighted with you.’ Try reading that sentence slowly, with your own name at the start, and reflect quietly on God saying that to you, both at your baptism and every day since.”
Mike Cope
Friday, September 19, 2008
Ready to Quit?
The mother of Titans, quarterback Vince Young, said he indicated he doesn’t want to play football and is “hurting inside and out.”
Felicia Young said in last Wednesday editions of The Tennessean that her son is tired of all the negativity he’s faced after being booed during a 17-10 win over Jacksonville. On Monday, Titans coach Jeff Fisher called police to help find him.
“What would you think if you were tired of being ridiculed and persecuted and talked about and not being treated very well, what would you do? What kind of decision would you make?” Felicia Young said “He may not want to deal with it (all), but you have to get to that point before you make that decision first.
Our society is tough not only on athletes but people in general.
It doesn’t matter if you are a NFL Quarterback or a trash man just doing the very best job you can, you will be ridiculed and talked about.
As a superintendent, I must have very thick skin. The decisions I make always makes someone happy and someone upset. I often think that you can live some place too long. Ever think about where you can shop? What store I am welcomed in? What group I can talk to at a game or activity? I sometimes have to think about that. Many times I think, “who haven’t I upset in this town?”
But then I think about what Christ went through during his brief ministry here on earth. I haven’t been beaten (physically), haven’t been spat upon (yet), I haven’t been crucified on a tree in humiliation and shame. My shoulders can get a little bigger when I think about what my Savior went through for me…………..
Felicia Young said in last Wednesday editions of The Tennessean that her son is tired of all the negativity he’s faced after being booed during a 17-10 win over Jacksonville. On Monday, Titans coach Jeff Fisher called police to help find him.
“What would you think if you were tired of being ridiculed and persecuted and talked about and not being treated very well, what would you do? What kind of decision would you make?” Felicia Young said “He may not want to deal with it (all), but you have to get to that point before you make that decision first.
Our society is tough not only on athletes but people in general.
It doesn’t matter if you are a NFL Quarterback or a trash man just doing the very best job you can, you will be ridiculed and talked about.
As a superintendent, I must have very thick skin. The decisions I make always makes someone happy and someone upset. I often think that you can live some place too long. Ever think about where you can shop? What store I am welcomed in? What group I can talk to at a game or activity? I sometimes have to think about that. Many times I think, “who haven’t I upset in this town?”
But then I think about what Christ went through during his brief ministry here on earth. I haven’t been beaten (physically), haven’t been spat upon (yet), I haven’t been crucified on a tree in humiliation and shame. My shoulders can get a little bigger when I think about what my Savior went through for me…………..
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Sunflowers
Sunflowers. One of my favorite fall landscapes.
There are many fields of sunflowers in Osage County, Kansas, this September. At one of the fields, we actually stopped the car on the highway last Sunday so Debbie could get a picture of the flowers reaching towards the sky and sun.
This past week, after the rain, I noticed that the field was full of droopy sunflowers. Only a handful had their flowers pointing up towards the sky.
I think about the Christian life when I see those drooping flowers. How easy it is to be a negative individual in this dark hateful world we live in. But the few who keep their heads up and look heavenward are the ones everyone notices and wants to know what is so special about their life? Why are they always positive and have a great outlook on life?
In Matthew 5, Jesus encourages us to let our lights so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
We do that by keeping our heads lifted toward the Son and being positive examples to those who are tired of life’s struggles.
So, when you drive by the sunflower patch, look at those who keep their heads up even when it becomes cloudy and dark.
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