Monday, February 09, 2009

Declining Numbers in the Church of Christ

The progressive side of the church often has an attitude that conservative churches are dragging down the church from the inside out. You hear things about how out of touch they are and how they are fighting battles that are at least 100 years old and the like. I may have even said something similar to that at some time or another. The point in this post is this - It is easy to point fingers at the other end of the theological spectrum and say someone else is to blame. It is also very easy for either side (isn’t that crazy terminology that we have taken sides within the church of Christ?) to build straw men and rip them to pieces with ease and vigor. Progressives are not the only ones who build straw men and point fingers. I have read plenty of that from the conservative side of the CofC as well. When conservatives and progressives do these things what ends up happening is that neither side takes ownership of any of the problem because they are themselves like the Pharisee in the temple who is thanking God that he is not like that tax collector over there.

So conservative churches are not the only problem. Progressive churches are not the only problem either. We are all, individually the problem. We all share in the problem. We also all have to be a part of the solution. We have to be even handed in our assessment of what is going on and take ownership of our own responsibility in our decline. So if you are on the progressive end of the Church of Christ spectrum (which is still very conservative compared to most of the Christian world) don’t think you are blame free because you aren’t legalistic and because you aren’t fighting theological battles from 100 years ago. Instead, be proactive in understanding your own biases and what areas you need to improve to help God’s church grow over the next decade. Again, they are not the enemy. If you are on the conservative side, don’t spend your time analyzing and assessing the words of the progressives just looking for an inconsistency or mistake. Instead, both sides need to see what FRUITS their life and ministry are producing. If it is producing FRUITS OF THE SPIRIT, whether conservative or progressive, then both sides of the aisle need to rejoice with the other and recognize that God is at work.

We can toss around stereotypes all day long but nothing is going to happen until we figure out that we aren’t going to change each other. The only person who can change your mind and your actions is you. So take some time to decide whether or not your life and ministry has been what God desires for it to be and don’t worry so much about what everyone else is doing. And be careful when you start labeling people as conservative or progressive or many other labels we have used. Once we start doing that we again play into being ineffectual.

Just in case I have now offended every single person who read this let me remind you that Jesus sides with me in the need to look at our own problems first and foremost. Jesus said in Matthew 7 - “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”

Matt Dabbs

Thursday, February 05, 2009

Which Road Should I Take?


I am really struggling with a decision in my life right now. It is so difficult to know what to do. Ever been presented an option and you had to decide what the correct path might be? It can be difficult.

I remember what Roger Hamm shared with us at an elder’s meeting about 2 years ago. If you keep God first and seek Him in all your decisions, either route you take, he will be right there with you.

In this time of economic uncertainty and tough times it’s great to know we have someone that is on the journey right next to us.

Wednesday, February 04, 2009

A Prophet's Prayer

We do a better job of imagining what worship will
look like in heaven than what it might be like
in church, Lord. We like the idea of crowns being cast
before you. Of a numberless choir singing Holy! Holy! Holy!
We are not even all that uncomfortable with
a trumpet or two in that setting. Or bowing
down, come to think of it, since everyone
else will be doing it, too.

It’s church that stumps us.
Contrary to our strongest resolve, we too often file into the
worship center wondering
What are we in for today?
And will we sing any songs I know?
Will it be so loud I can’t think?
Will I hear anything that makes any sense at all?
These fears leave someone else—anyone else—in charge of what we
receive. And what we contribute.

Deliver back to us, Lord, a voice—a loud prophet’s
voice—that calls us to enter your presence as
your church with awe. With reverence. With
anticipation. With wonder. Make bold our own
voice to cry Today we want to hear a word
from the Lord! Today we want to practice
abandon in adoring you. So maybe heaven
won’t come as such a shock.

Prayer from a Church Web Site

Friday, January 30, 2009

Encouraged

Talking about being encouraged.....I was on Sunday evening. The Young Professional guys did a great job leading our thoughts about our Faithful God. I appreciated the personal stories that were shared with us and powerful scriptures and songs. These guys have unbelievable hearts centered on God and spiritual things. I'm blessed that they let me "hang out" with them!
Keep up the great work guys.

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Thought for the Day

Be not angry that you cannot make others as you want them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be.

—Thomas à Kempis

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Tough Times Ahead

I will be out of town at a state conference in Wichita the next 3 days. School finance will be the central discussion item as we look ahead to the future.

It doesn't look good for children's services as well as education the next few years.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

What is a Church of Christ?

FOUR CONGREGATIONS with a cappella and instrumental Sunday worship services are excluded from 2009 directory
By Erik Tryggestad The Christian Chronicle

Each edition of Churches of Christ in the United States contains a chart of congregations with the largest weekly attendance. In the 2009 version of the directory, the Memorial Road Church of Christ in Oklahoma City and the Highland Church of Christ in Abilene, Texas, share that position. Both reported a weekly attendance of about 2,200.Conspicuously absent from the new directory is the congregation that has occupied the top spot on the list since 2000 — the Richland Hills Church of Christ in Texas.

In the past six months, the Richland Hills church averaged between 4,100 and 4,200 people combined in its three weekend services, executive minister Mike Washburn said. But the Texas church was one of 21 congregations omitted from the latest edition of the directory for using instrumental music in at least one Sunday morning service, said Carl Royster, the volume’s compiler.“The one unifying constant that defines whether or not such a congregation is included in this document is the practice of a cappella worship services,” Royster wrote in the directory’s introduction.

‘SADDENED AND DISAPPOINTED’
In the past, compilers have excluded congregations as they broke ties with Churches of Christ. In 2003 the Oak Hills Church of Christ in San Antonio, then with about 3,500 members, added instrumental worship services and dropped “of Christ” from its name. The church was excluded from the next directory, published in 2006.But Richland Hills’ elders have not broken ties with Churches of Christ, nor did they ask to be excluded from the 2009 directory, Washburn said.“From a church standpoint, we’re saddened and disappointed,” Washburn said of Richland Hills’ removal from the book. “We strongly feel like we are a part of Churches of Christ and continue a strong love for — and commitment to — excellent a cappella worship.“However, we are a part of a huge movement in our fellowship who do not believe a cappella worship is the sole way of defining who Churches of Christ are,” Washburn said.In 2007 Richland Hills added an instrumental worship service on Saturday nights. A few months ago the church added instruments to one of its two Sunday morning services. The church’s 9 a.m. worship remains a cappella, and on a recent Sunday 2,347 people attended that service, Washburn said. Like Richland Hills, three of the other 20 churches excluded from the directory have instrumental and a cappella services: the Farmers Branch church in Dallas, the Jenks, Okla., church and the Redwood church in Redwood City, Calif. The other 17 are entirely instrumental.Many of the entirely-instrumental churches have cut ties with Churches of Christ, Royster said.That doesn’t necessarily mean the 12,629 churches listed in the directory are entirely a cappella. The Quail Springs church in Oklahoma City, for example, added an instrumental Sunday morning service last year, but is listed in the 2009 directory. So are churches that sponsor instrumental events on weekdays or added instruments after the reporting period. “Instrumental congregations are not knowingly included in the data, but it is impossible to guarantee that one cannot be found,” according to the directory’s introduction. “Therefore, it is suggested that, as needs arise, the reader use the information provided in Churches of Christ in the United States to contact a congregation in order to learn more details about it.”

WHY NO ‘INSTRUMENTAL’ LABEL?
Instrumental worship is not the only issue on which Churches of Christ differ. Since its beginning the directory has denoted subgroups within the fellowship, including churches that use one cup in communion or practice mutual edification and oppose the use of paid ministers.When asked why the 2009 directory didn’t simply adopt an “instrumental” designation instead of excluding churches, Royster said that doing so would compromise the accuracy of the publication as a statistical record of a cappella churches.The directory’s original compiler, Mac Lynn, began gathering information from Churches of Christ three decades ago. At the time two other branches of the Restoration Movement — the Disciples of Christ and the Christian Church/Churches of Christ, both of which use instruments — had directories. But there was no comprehensive directory for the movement’s third branch — a cappella Churches of Christ. “The most recent issue of a cappella churches going instrumental was not an issue at the time,” said Lynn, who turned compilation duties over to Nashville, Tenn.-based 21st Century Christian after the 2003 edition and is no longer officially involved with the publication. Including churches with instruments is problematic because “the directory has always been a list of a cappella congregations,” Lynn said. “The exclusion of instrumental churches has not been on theological grounds.”When a cappella churches add instruments, they resemble the instrumental churches of the Restoration Movement, which have separate directories. “What’s happened is you’ve got a few churches in no man’s land,” Lynn said.

DIRECTORY NOT ‘OFFICIAL LIST’
Washburn said he’s concerned that church members will see Richland Hills’ exclusion as a sign that the church has broken ties with its fellowship. That’s not the case, he said, noting his congregation’s involvement with a cappella churches, ministries and schools associated with Churches of Christ.“We have great love for the people in our heritage,” he said. “We want to be a part of this fellowship.”Royster said that readers should use the directory as a simple resource, not a theological document denoting which churches are — and which aren’t — in the brotherhood.“This publication has never been intended to be any kind of an ‘official list of authorized congregations,’” he said. “I am saddened when I hear of people attempting to use it as such.”

Largest congregations by attendance, according to the 2009 edition of Churches of Christ in the United States.
1. (tie) Memorial Road Church of Christ, Oklahoma City
Attendance 2009: 2,200
Members 2009: 2,667
Rank 2006: 21.

(tie) Highland Church of Christ, Abilene, Texas
Attendance 2009: 2,200
Members 2009: 2,000
Rank 2006: 3

3. The Family of God at Woodmont Hills
Attendance 2009: 1,750
Members 2009: 1,550
Rank 2006: 4

4. Madison Church of Christ, Madison, Tenn.
Attendance 2009: 1,740
Members 2009: 3,102
Rank 2006: 5

5. Saturn Road Church of Christ, Garland, Texas
Attendance 2009: 1,731
Members 2009: 1,707
Rank 2006: 6

Monday, January 26, 2009

Still

I always like to share new worship music that I really enjoy. This new song Still is one of those new classics.....................

Still

Hide me now,
under Your wings.
Cover me within Your mighty hand.

Chorus:
When the oceans rise and thunders roar.
I will soar with You, above the storm
Father You are king over the flood,
I will be still and know You are God.

Find rest my soul
in Christ alone,
Know his power, in quietness and trust.

When the oceans rise and thunders roar.
I will soar with You, above the storm
Father You are king over the flood,
I will be still and know You are God.

Find rest my soul
in Christ alone,
Know his power, in quietness and trust.

When the oceans rise and thunders roar.
I will soar with You, above the storm
Father You are king over the flood,
I will be still and know You are God.

When the oceans rise and thunders roar.
I will soar with You, above the storm
Father You are king over the flood,
I will be still and know You are God.

Lyrics of still by Reuben Morgan

Friday, January 23, 2009

100th Anniversary Dates Set


The 100th Anniversary Celebration for the Central Church of Christ in Topeka, Kansas, will take place April 25 & 26, 2009. If you know of a former member, or you are a former member, please contact the Church office for further details: 1250 SW College,Topeka, Kansas 66604.
(785) 233-6157 or centcofc@swbell.net

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Former York College Professor Passes Away

Former Professor Passes Jim L. Brock, 1949 - 2009

The York College community is saddened by the sudden passing of alumnus and former YC faculty member, Jim "JB" Brock. JB passed away unexpectedly Thursday afternoon (Jan. 15) after being hospitalized only the day before. JB was a long-time housing administrator at Pepperdine University, serving the university for more than twenty years. He was 59.
"JB made everyone he met feel like they were special… and that's because he was the special one," said Mark Davis, Seaver College Dean of Student Affairs. "He put people first, and as a result he made us a stronger and more loving community."

JB graduated from York College in 1969, majoring in speech and drama. He was president of the Sigma Tau social club and performed in many of the theatre productions while at YC, including Merchant of Venice where he was awarded Best Supporting Actor for his role as the Prince of Arragon.

He returned to campus to head the communications department and direct the YC theatre productions (1977-1982). He sponsored Soul Concern, taught speech, and directed the forensics team in his seven years on the faculty. He also helped to direct Songfest and was a co-sponsor of Sigma Tau.

JB began his career at Pepperdine in 1984 in the Seaver College Career Development Center. He went on to serve as Director of Residential Life, Associate Dean of Students in Student Affairs, and Director of Housing

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Mabrey Miller Goes Home


Dr. Mabrey L. Miller passed away at his home in York in the late evening hours, Sunday, January 18. Longtime member of the YC faculty and elder at the East Hill Church of Christ in York, "Doc" will be missed terribly by the college community.

He and Madge have been a part of the YC family for more than fifty years. Mabrey was among the first faculty members in 1956 when the college reopened. He would assume a number of duties through the years including teaching math, Dean of Students, Academic Dean, and Bible professor. Raising six children and serving the congregation at East Hill went hand in hand with his work on campus.

The 2005 academic year was dedicated to Madge and Mabrey for their Kingdom work and the 50 years of leadership they provided York College. Click here to read the tribute that was written at that time of their love for this place and its people.
Mabrey hired me for my first teaching and coaching job on a cold, late April night at Chances R Restaurant in York in 1985. After graduating from Newman University in December of 1984 he was recruiting me to come back to be a part of the faculty. It didn't take much pleading just a big bear hug from one of my all-time Heroes of Faith. Mabrey encouraged me to go into administration and always shared with me his insights on being a Christian leader. Mabrey, you will always be Mr. York College and your spirit will live on in the lives of hundreds of students you touched the past 50 years. Enjoy your eternal reward!

Funeral arrangements have been made for Saturday (Jan. 23) at 2:00 p.m. at the East Hill Church of Christ in York.

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

President Barack Obama


Craig has been looking forward to this day for sometime. Best wishes to our new president and may he seek God's wisdom as he leads our nation.

Monday, January 19, 2009

Practical Atheist

In our Young Professional Class this month we are examining a study called Practical Atheist. Its a unusual title, but a very needed study in today's world. A practical atheist is someone who believes in God, but lives as if He doesn't exist. All of us at times don't actually live the life that a follower of God should live.

In our first week, we examined that many of us believe in God, but we don't fear Him like we should.

In 2 Timothy 3 it states..... There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God-having a form of godliness but denying its power…

How easy it is to believe in God but live an entirely different self centered life style.

When you believe in God and when you truly fear Him you will want to do two specific things. One is you will want to serve him wholeheartedly without any conditions.

The example that comes to my mind is the individual that we are studying on Sunday mornings during our assembly time......Abraham. He believed in God and he served Him without any conditions. He believed in His God with all his heart that he would even sacrifice His own son. God saw this faith in action in Genesis 22

"Do not lay a hand on the boy," he said. "Do not do anything to him. Now I know that you fear God, because you have not withheld from me your son, your only son."
Genesis 22:12.

The second thing that will happen when we fear God is we will be forever ruined.

Isaiah is a great example of a man that was ruined because he actually saw God in all His glory. When we allow God to change us and as we see Him we are ruined.

"Woe to me!" I cried. "I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the LORD Almighty." Isaiah 6:5

True obedience is found in the love we have for our God and the love that is showered upon us each day. When we believe in Him and when we fear Him, the blessings continue to flow continually.

Friday, January 16, 2009

Warm Weather


Most of my friends and family know that I hate winter! I love 100 degree days where you sweat and the sun beats down. 1 degree and a wind chill of minus 20 is not for me.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Pray for our Kansas Leaders


Please be in prayer for our Kansas leaders as they begin the 2009 Legislative session this week. Many serious decisions and discussions will take place in this building during the next five months.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

A Growing Church Even When We Have Differences

In Acts 8, we see Saul persecuting the Church in Jerusalem. It’s a very interesting series of verses that describe an important event that led the churches expansion to take place throughout the world. Was this positive or negative for the early church?

“On that day a great persecution broke out against the church at Jerusalem, and all except the apostles were scattered throughout Judea and Samaria. 2Godly men buried Stephen and mourned deeply for him. 3But Saul began to destroy the church. Going from house to house, he dragged off men and women and put them in prison. 4Those who had been scattered preached the word wherever they went.”

If you lived during this trying and difficult time, you might think, “how could this ever be a positive thing?” If you were running for your life because you were being persecuted for worshipping a God who had sent his only Son to live among the people and then died for all humanity and then arose……the political leaders were looking for ways to stop this church expanding in any possible way.

Three thousand years later I believe it was the turning point in the history of the church. It allowed the church to move and grow in different ways among the many cultures of the time. The church grew and prospered.

One of the reasons some churches experience peace and productivity today is because the shepherds allow those who are unhappy about issues to move on without disturbance. They don’t chase after nor cater to dislikes for it is clear they can’t please everybody. They don’t carry ill-will toward any for not preferring the way we do things, but they gently refuse to hold court night after night in effort to appease the disgruntled. They strongly believe those special ones leaving are called to do so by God to bless, richly bless, other congregations. The spreading of believers has always been a mark of God’s move in the early church. Why is it we applaud the results of Acts 2 likeness among us, but criticize Acts 8 likeness among us as if some strange thing was happening? His ways have always been higher than ours and always will be.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Make A Difference

Once upon a time, there was a wise man who used to go to the ocean to do his writing. He had a habit of walking on the beach before he began his work. One day, as he was walking along the shore, he looked down the beach and saw a human figure moving like a dancer. He smiled to himself at the thought of someone who would dance to the day, and so, he walked faster to catch up. As he got closer, he noticed that the figure was that of a little boy, and that what he was doing was not dancing at all. The young man was reaching down to the shore, picking up small objects, and throwing them into the ocean.He came closer still and called out "Good morning! May I ask what it is that you are doing?" The little boy paused, looked up, and replied "Throwing starfish into the ocean." "I must ask, then, why are you throwing starfish into the ocean?" asked the somewhat startled wise man. To this, the little boy replied, "The sun is up and the tide is going out. If I don't throw them in, they'll die." Upon hearing this, the wise man commented, "But, young man, do you not realize that there are miles and miles of beach and there are starfish all along every mile? You can't possibly make a difference!" Discouraged he began to walk away. Suddenly the little boy bent down, picked up yet another starfish, and threw it into the ocean. As it met the water, he said, "It made a difference for that one." The man looked at the little boy inquisitively and thought about what he had said and had done. Inspired, he joined the little boy in throwing the starfish back into the ocean.

This is such a great story. There is so MUCH truth in this story! It is so easy to focus on reaching the masses (which is important). The problem is that we can get discouraged and we can forget the power of just reaching one person at a time - making a difference in one person at a time. We can make a difference in our neighbour's life. We can make a difference in our child's teacher's life. We can make a difference in the homeless man's life. We can make a difference in the grocery store clerk's life. We can make a difference in our child's life. We can make a difference in a friend's life. All we have to do is focus on the one and making a difference in their life. We need to show one person at a time that they are valuable and loved by an almighty and loving God .

Are you willing to make a difference for one?

Monday, January 12, 2009

Engagement Announcement


Jim and Jacque Carroll of Burleson, Texas, announce the engagement and upcoming wedding of their daughter, Allison Elaine, to Brian Lee Carriger, son of David and Debbie Carriger of Osage City. Allison is a graduate of Burleson High School ('04) and Oklahoma Christian University with a degree in early childhood education. Brian is a graduate of Osage City High School ('04) and Oklahoma Christian University. Brian resides in Garnett and is a deputy with the Anderson County Sheriff's Department. A Feb. 28, 2009, wedding in Ft. Worth, Texas, is planned. A reception in Kansas will honor the couple at a later date.

Friday, January 09, 2009

Good Eggshells

I really enjoyed the following article from Terry Rush that was sent to me. Has many great reminders.............

My flaws are many, several, and numerous. Worse yet, God knows more of them than even I am aware of. Walking on eggshells is usually a negative connotation. But there is one positive one, at least, where all need to tread very carefully. We must perpetually guard against our own pride. The good eggshells are being terribly careful not to slip onto the trail of pride. I fear my gear of operation is usually set there.

Pride ruins all of us. I suppose it is mankind's true nemesis as pride insists upon hitching a ride to every event. Two guys were praying. One was tickled to death--- possibly died in it---that he was not as bad as the other while they both prayed. The other knew his counterpart wasn't lying. He was bad. Yet, God justified the humble one and would not do the same for the one full of self-satisfaction.Have you ever been proud you are Church of Christ and not Baptist? Have you ever been proud you are not like those in the certain-kind-of Church of Christ? Have you ever thanked God you aren't as dumb and foolish and ridiculous as others? We see this trait as a terrible mistake in political government. The audacity that others are fools when we are not finds politicians in need of a good dose of eggshell walking. The same mistake is made in the church....any brand.I guess this pride thing will be a burden for me all the way to my grave. But I don't want it to be. We must be alert to the sting of this villain who insists upon driving our lives. And should you be one who is proud that you aren't proud, you too need good eggshells.

Pride: a real problem for believers. Walk more carefully.

Terry Rush

Wednesday, January 07, 2009

Special Request

A Letter from Max Lucado

Dear Friends,

I am a pastor, not a politician, so I can only speculate as to what awaits President-elect Barack Obama. The long-lasting benefits of good choices…the fearful consequences of poor ones…complicated social issues and relentless international problems.

He needs our prayers. And it’s our privilege to pray for him. The Bible says: Pray for rulers and for all who have authority so that we can have quiet and peaceful lives full of worship and respect for God. (1 Timothy 2:2)

For that reason, I invite you to set aside a few minutes on Inauguration Day, Tuesday, January 20, and ask God to bless Barack Obama and his family. Join me and urge as many people as possible to speak to God on behalf on our incoming president.

Good things happen when people pray.

A few years ago I attended a meeting in the White House. While standing in the State Room, I noticed some words engraved on the fireplace: a message from John Adams to his wife Abigail. “I pray heaven to bestow the best of blessings on this house and all that shall hereafter inhabit it. May none but honest and wise men ever rule under this roof.”

Here’s hoping that same prayer is offered and answered again.

Warmly,
Max Lucado

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

Craig Back to NYC



Craig returned to his home away from home yesterday. Not a bad view Craig from your apartment!

Monday, January 05, 2009

Craig Returns to the Big Apple


Craig returns to NYC today. He will work all month at Ug Australia and start second semester classes on January 26. Sure was nice having our little boy home for three weeks!

Sunday, January 04, 2009

Order of Worship

Order of Worship
Sunday, January 4, 2009

Welcome: Roger Hamm
Worship Leaders: Craig Carriger and David Carriger
Reading of the Word: Kevin Johnston

Scripture: 1 Chronicles 29:11-13

Jesus You’re my Firm Foundation
63 I Will Call Upon the Lord
718 We Shall Assemble

Prayer

Scripture: Mark 15:33-37

324 Alas! And Did My Savior Bleed (Verse 1 and 2 Only)

Scripture: Matthew 28:1-8a

344 Low in the Grave He Lay (Verses 1-3 then Chorus)

Lords Supper

Contribution

Dismiss Children

Scripture: 1 John 4:14-16

286 Wonderful Story of Love (Verse 1 Only)
18 Faithful Love

Message Evan Burdan

Invitation 790 Lord, Take Control (Sing Twice)

Announcements

Scripture: Psalm 143:9-12

693 Heart of a Servant
694 Servant Song

Closing Prayer

Friday, January 02, 2009

A Thought for Today

Bless all who guide youth’s footsteps,
as they seek the light of truth.
That through them
You may be revealed in all your plenitude;
For only when youth’s quest shall be at length fulfilled in You,
Shall they know inner harmony such as earth cannot give.
Oh, Wisdom of all ages, speak through all who would proclaim
The glory of your kingdom!
Be, O Lord, the way through which
Each morning’s verdant promise may be splendidly fulfilled.
As You, Yourself shall fashion in human hearts.

Margaret Roese

Thursday, January 01, 2009

Happy New Year

Happy New Year!

Just One Request

Dear Master
for this coming year
Just one request I bring:
I do not pray for happiness,
Or any earthly thing—
I do not ask to understand
The way Thou leadest me,
But this I ask:
Teach me to do
The thing that pleaseth Thee.
I want to know
Thy guiding voice,
To walk with Thee each day.
Dear Master make me swift to hear
And ready to obey.
And thus the year I now begin
A happy year will be—
If I am seeking just to do
The thing that pleaseth Thee.

--Unknown Author

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

New Years Eve

Another year is about to pass away. 2008 was a good year for my family but one that was a challenge to our country in many ways. The economy is the worst since the Great Depression. As our leadership changes in the United States in a few days we need to be praying for our country and the direction it really needs to go as we enter 2009.

On a personal note we enjoy our annual New Years Eve trip to Ottawa every year. We spend family time with my brother and his family as we usher in a new year.

Good luck to the University of Kansas today in the Insight Bowl against Minnesota.

Monday, December 29, 2008

Two Brothers

Once there were two brothers.

Growing up, they did everything together. They lived out in the country and didn’t have any neighbors close by, so they became best friends.

As adults, they chose separate careers, but remained close friends. They’d see each other at church, get together to watch football, and go over to their parents house for dinner.

The younger brother seemed to live a charmed life. He was handsome, popular, successful in business. He was a leader at church and in the community.

The older brother struggled. He had a prickly personality and had a hard time getting ahead financially. People tended to overlook him when his little brother was around.

Over time, this began to wear on the older brother. He started to feel bitter towards his little brother. When his little brother bought a huge HD flatscreen TV and invited him to come over and watch the game on it, the older brother thought his brother was deliberately rubbing his success in his face. So he turned down the invitation.

They started to grow apart.

The older brother stopped calling his little brother to see what he was up to. He started sitting on the other side of the room at church and using the exit on the other side of the building so he wouldn’t run into his little brother. He stopped going over to his parent’s house when he knew that his little brother was going to be there.

The wider the chasm grew, the more angry the older brother became with his younger brother. Everything his little brother said and did was an offense to the older brother. So much so that he decided to go to another church so that he wouldn’t have to see him at all.

His little brother was puzzled by his big brother’s behavior, but figured his brother needed some space. If his big brother needed to talk to him about something, he would come to him when the time was right.

Their parents were worried, but the older brother wouldn’t tell them what was going on. They begged him to talk to someone about what was bugging him.

He finally sat down with a trusted old friend who had known his family for years and told him why he was so angry with his little brother.

The friend listened carefully and then gave him some blunt advice. He said, “This really isn’t about your brother. It’s about you. You’re projecting things onto your brother that aren’t true or real. You’ve got something dark and evil growing inside of you and if you don’t get a handle on it, it’s going to destroy you.”

The older brother assumed that, like everyone else, this old friend was taking his little brother’s side. So he ignored his friend’s advice and continued to obsess about all the ways his little brother was intentionally showing him up.

One night, emboldened by a little too much alcohol, he drove over to his brothers house and confronted him. His little brother was hurt and confused and denied all the accusations his older brother hurled at him. This made his brother even more angry. Blind with rage, he called his little brother unspeakable names and charged him. His little brother stumbled and fell and hit his head against the brick slab in front of the fireplace. He was dead before his older brother could calm down and realize what he had done.

When their parents learned what had happened, they were heartbroken. In an instant, they lost two sons. One was put in the ground and the other was sent off to prison.
In their grief they struggled to make sense of what had come between their two precious sons, whose names were Cain and Abel.

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21 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ 22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’ is answerable to the Sanhedrin. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. 23 “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, 24 leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to that person; then come and offer your gift. 25 “Settle matters quickly with your adversary who is taking you to court. Do it while you are still together on the way, or your adversary may hand you over to the judge, and the judge may hand you over to the officer, and you may be thrown into prison. 26 Truly I tell you, you will not get out until you have paid the last penny.
Matthew 5:21-26

Friday, December 26, 2008

Today's Prayer

Oh Lord, You're Beautiful
Keith Green

Oh Lord, You're beautiful,
Your face is all I seek,
And when Your eyes are on this child,
Your grace abounds to me.

Chorus:
I wanna take Your Word
and shine it all around.
But first help me just to live it, Lord!
And when I'm doing well.
Help me to never seek a crown.
For my reward is giving glory to You.

Oh, Lord, You're wonderful,
Your touch is all I need,
And when Your hand is on this child,
Your healing I receive.

Oh Lord, please light the fire,
That once burned bright and clear,
Replace the lamp of my first love,
That burned with holy fear.

Gratefully, in Jesus' name. Amen.

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Christmas Eve

Christmas...the day we celebrate the birth of the Savior...the One who was rejected by men...the One who came from heaven to earth to give his life a ransom for your sins and mine...the One who is now in heaven preparing a place for his followers...the One who is coming again to take us to be with him in heaven forever. How can we ever thank God and the Son of God enough for so great a salvation?

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Allison's Graduation


Were back from our quick trip to Oklahoma for Allison's Graduation and Christmas with our parents; and our trip to Texas to get motels and caterers lined up for the wedding in February. We had a great time with the Carroll Family and enjoyed our time together. We got home about 1:30 this morning after grocery shopping at Walmart in Emporia. My head hit the pillow about 3:00 a.m. and was up early to begin cooking Christmas cookies and caramels. Freezing rain and snow is here....it definitely looks like Christmas. For my food buddies that read this blog on a daily basis I had some of the best fried chicken I have ever ate at Babes Chicken House in Burleson. What a meal.

God the Life of the Soul

This amazing quote from Tricia McCary Rhodes in her new book, Sacred Chaos: Spiritual Disciplines for the Life You Have.

"Sometime I think of the hours and days when I have shunned the Lord's indwelling presence through ignorance or neglect or willful rebellion, and I grieve. But I understand better now that no matter how unsacred the space within me seems to be, God's desire to make himself at home there far outweighs the waywardness of my heart. He will win. His mercies, new every morning, remind me that though I can never make myself worthy of his presence, I am freely received and fully accepted by the Beloved.

God himself has come to make our souls a haven for holy communion, a place of personal retreat--for rest or rejuvenation or desperately needed restoration--no matter the circumstances that swirl about us. This is both our hope and our destiny, for as Saint Augustine said so well, "The soul is the life of the body, and God is the life of the soul.'"

Monday, December 22, 2008

Friday, December 19, 2008

Graduation


Congratulations to Allison Carroll on graduating from Oklahoma Christian University today at 2:00 p.m. We will be there to celebrate with you. You will make a great elementary teacher! By the way...the wedding is only 70 days away.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Welcome Home Craig


It's great to have Craig home from NYC for a few days. I love to sit and listen to his stories of New York City and school. I now know how my grandmother must have felt when I told her stories about my travels growing up. She would listen to every word. Enjoy the time off Craig....it's great to have you home.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

The Three Trees

Once upon a mountain top, three little trees stood and dreamed of what they wanted to become when they grew up. The first little tree looked up at the stars and said: " I want to hold treasure. I want to be covered with gold and filled with precious stones. I'll be the most beautiful treasure chest in the world!" The second little tree looked out at the small stream trickling by on it's way to the ocean. " I want to be traveling mighty waters and carrying powerful kings. I'll be the strongest ship in the world! The third little tree looked down into the valley below where busy men and women worked in a busy town. I don't want to leave the mountain top at all. I want to grow so tall that when people stop to look at me they'll raise their eyes to heaven and think of God. I will be the tallest tree in the world.

Years, passed. The rain came, the sun shone and the little trees grew tall. One day three wood cutters climbed the mountain. The first wood cutter looked at the first tree and said, "This tree is beautiful. It is perfect for me." With a swoop of his shining ax, the first tree fell. "Now I shall make a beautiful chest, I shall hold wonderful treasure!" the first tree said.

The second wood cutter looked at the second tree and said, "This tree is strong. It's perfect for me." With a swoop of his shining ax, the second tree fell. "Now I shall sail mighty waters!" thought the second tree. " I shall be a strong ship for mighty kings!"

The third tree felt her heart sink when the last wood cutter looked her way. She stood straight and tall and pointed bravely to heaven. But the wood cutter never even looked up. "Any kind of tree will do for me." He muttered. With a swoop of his shining ax, the third tree fell.

The first tree rejoiced when the wood cutter brought her to a carpenter's shop. But the carpenter fashioned the tree into a feed box for animals. The once beautiful tree was not covered with gold, or treasure. She was coated with saw dust and filled with hay for hungry farm animals.
The second tree smiled when the wood cutter took her to a shipyard, but no mighty sailing ship was made that day. Instead the once strong tree was hammered and awed into a simple fishing boat. She was too small and too weak to sail to an ocean, or even a river, instead she was taken to a little lake. The third tree was confused when the wood cutter cut her into strong beams and left her in a lumberyard. "What happened?" The once tall tree wondered. " All I ever wanted was to stay on the mountain top and point to God..."

Many days and nights passed. The three trees nearly forgot their dreams. But one night, golden starlight poured over the first tree as a young woman placed her newborn baby in the feed box. "I wish I could make a cradle for him." Her husband whispered. The mother squeezed his hand and smiled as the starlight shone on the smooth and sturdy wood. " This manger is beautiful." She said. And suddenly the first tree knew he was holding the greatest treasure in the world.
One evening a tired traveler and his friends crowded into the old fishing boat. The traveler fell asleep as the second tree quietly sailed out into the lake. Soon a thundering and a thrashing storm arose. The little tree shuddered. She new she did not have the strength to carry so many passengers safely through the wind and the rain. The tired man awoke. He stood up, stretched out his hand, and said, "Peace." The storm stopped as quickly as it had begun. And suddenly the second tree knew he was carrying the king of heaven and earth.

One Friday morning, the third tree was startled when her beams were yanked from the forgotten wood pile. She flinched as she was carried through an angry jeering crowd. She shuddered when soldiers nailed a man's hand to her. She felt ugly and harsh and cruel. But on Sunday morning, when the sun rose and the earth trembled with joy beneath her, the third tree knew that God's love had changed everything. It had made the third tree strong. And every time people thought of the third tree, they would think of God. That was better than being the tallest tree in the world.

The next time you feel down because you didn't get what you wanted, sit tight and be happy because God is thinking of something better to give you.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

What Has Christmas Become?


Has Christmas become more about buying all kinds of STUFF, so we can give that STUFF to others who already have a lot of STUFF who will be giving us STUFF that we may not need?

Monday, December 15, 2008

The Ultimate Gift-Part 3

What can we do to make this Christmas the very best? Here are four special gifts we can give.........

One is to worship Christ more fully than ever before. We get so busy and forget the precious gift that Jesus gave for us. During this time of the season, make worship a priority.

Second, spend less. Don't go in debt. Don't rack up credit card bills. Don't over extend financially where you are so stressed out as you start the new year.

Third, give more. Give more of your time and energy to helping those around you. Less about satisfying your own desires and m ore about touching the lives of others.

And last, let's show our love during this busy holiday season. Don't honk at the guy that stole your parking place. Be nice to the cousin who you might not care to be around but really try to show him you care.

The holiday season can be a trying and confusing time. One that you wish could pass quickly. But it could be a time that many good things could happen for the cause of Christ.

Let's show Christ and others what the holidays should be all about.......Worship, Sacrifice, Giving to others and Loving more. Christ did that for us and we can shower these on others this holiday season.

“He was despised and rejected—a man of sorrows, acquainted with bitterest grief. We turned our backs on him and looked the other way when he went by. He was despised, and we did not care. Yet it was our weaknesses he carried; it was our sorrows that weighed him down. And we thought his troubles were a punishment from God for his own sins!” Isaiah 53:3-4

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Storm


Debbie took this picture on the way to Church Sunday morning. When we left the house it was 58 degrees when we hit the clouds the wind shifted out of the north and it was 36 degrees. It's 5 degrees right now with a windchill of 15 below.

Friday, December 12, 2008

Christmas Open House


Today is the day. Our annual Christmas Open House for the employees of USD 420 Osage City. Debbie has planned for this party all year. We have cooked for two weeks and look forward to a packed house of 140 individuals today. Should be a fun day.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

The Ultimare Gift-Part 2

Ever think about the special gifts Christ has given you? When Christ came to this world He came with a purpose. He wanted us to have a relationship with Him.

One thing Christ brought us was Freedom. Jesus came to set us free from sin. We were held as captives but He came to set us free from the bondage of false realities, addictions, destructive behaviors, relationship problems...you name it, He took it all away.

Second, He gave us the gift of forgiveness. Jesus paid it all. He brought forgiveness to those that trusted and believed in Him. During this busy holiday season maybe we can offer that same forgiveness to others. Anyone holding a grudge? Any bad relationships? This time of year would be a good time to say I'm sorry for those careless words or deeds. Forgiveness is a great gift.

Third, Jesus brought light to a dark world. We lived in darkness until the Light of the World entered this place. We can and need to be that light today to those around us. Those searching for something positive and worthwhile in their lives. Light is powerful and can be that path to a great change in the lives of many individuals.

(More to Come)

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

The Ultimate Gift-Part 1

This time of year is exciting. The holiday music, the beautiful lights, great food and time spent with family and friends. But with all the excitement, it's a difficult time for many people in the world. The Christmas season is one that draws many non-churchgoers back to church for special services and programs.

A sermon I heard recently talked about this special time of year and the many challenges we encounter during the holidays.

The question was raised, "how would Jesus like us to celebrate during this time of year"?

How have we celebrated? By looking at the consumerism and the materialistic side of Christmas. The American people spent $450 billion dollars on Christmas gifts in 2007. I think we have a serious problem if we feel that Christmas should be totally about getting gifts and not giving what truly needs to be given to people during this busy holiday period.

In John 3:16, "for God so loved the world He gave us His Son". That was the ultimate gift. How can we pass that gift on during the next few days...................

(More to Come)

Tuesday, December 09, 2008

Christmas: A Call to Remember

Christmas: A Call to Remember

In his book, A Room Called Remember, Fredrick Buechner tells about the great snowfall in New York City in the winter of 1947. At first it seemed no different from any other snow storm. The flakes gently floated down without any wind to drive them. All day they fell. Gradually the sidewalks, parked cars and buildings were covered with a blanket of white. Streets became slushy. Shopkeepers were out with their shovels trying to keep clear a path to their doors. And the snow kept falling. The plows couldn’t keep ahead of it. Consequently, the traffic nearly came to a standstill. Businesses closed early and people did their best to get home before nightfall.
By the next morning bustling New York was a totally different city. Abandoned cars were buried. Nothing on wheels could move. Skiers glided gracefully down Park Avenue. The most striking transformation, however, was the silence. The only sounds were muffled voices and the ringing church bells. People listened because they couldn’t help themselves. And our world rarely listens anymore—whether in New York or Toronto, London or Los Angeles, Sidney or Singapore—unless a crisis of sufficient magnitude thrusts a wrench into the wheels of our highspeed, technological society and forces us to a standstill.

Except, perhaps, as Buechner points out, at Christmas time when it’s hard not to stop and listen. Business increases to a frenzied pace. Canned carols blast out over the din of traffic. Bells jingle. Red-robed Santas freeze in Chicago, while their counterparts fry in Melbourne. Then, suddenly, night falls on Christmas Eve. The last shop closes. All the hullabaloo stops. Everything is silent—for one brief day.

This year don’t miss the silence. Take time to listen. Be still and hear the true message of Christmas which, above all, is a call to remember that God has not forgotten us, but is vitally involved in the affairs of mankind. Two thousand years ago he came to earth in person to save us from our sins.

So as Christmas rapidly approaches, may I encourage you to pause for just a moment and hear God’s Word: "The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel—which means, ‘God with us.’"(Matthew 1:23).

And again, "An angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, ‘Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.’" (Matthew 1:20).

One of the great tragedies of our time is not that God has forgotten us, but that we have forgotten him.

Richard Innes

Monday, December 08, 2008

Sooners Play for National Title


Great game Saturday night as the Sooners won the Big 12 Championship. OU plays Florida for the NCAA Title on January 8.

Friday, December 05, 2008

Healing Rain

Healing Rain
Michael W. Smith

Healing rain is coming down
It's coming nearer to this old town
Rich and poor, weak and strong
It's bringing mercy, it won't be long.

Healing rain is coming down
It's coming closer to the lost and found
Tears of joy, and tears of shame
Are washed forever in Jesus' name

Healing rain, it comes with fire
So let it fall and take us higher
Healing rain, I'm not afraid
To be washed in Heaven's rain

Lift your heads, let us return
To the mercy seat where time began
And in your eyes, I see the pain
Come soak this dry heart with healing rain

And only You, the Son of man
Can take a leper and let him stand
So lift your hands, they can be held
By someone greater, the great I Am

Healing rain, it comes with fire
So let it fall and take us higher
Healing rain, I'm not afraid
To be washed in Heaven's rain

To be washed in Heaven's rain...
Healing rain is falling down
Healing rain is falling down
I'm not afraid
I'm not afraid...

Thursday, December 04, 2008

Howard Dodd Obituary


Howard Dean Dodd, 75, of Topeka, passed away peacefully Tuesday, Dec. 2, 2008 surrounded by his loving wife and family. Howard was born August 15, 1933 in Clovis, NM. He worked for the AT&SF Railroad from the age of 18 until his retirement in 1987 when he was assistant superintendent of the Topeka shops. Howard was an active member of the Central Church of Christ in Topeka and a former elder of Highland Park Church of Christ. Howard married his childhood sweetheart, Doris Bomar of Bovina, TX, Oct. 15, 1951, in Clovis. They recently celebrated their 57th anniversary. Howard is survived by Doris; his sister Joyce Dodd Jones of Clovis, NM; son Wesley Dodd (Teresa) of Monument, CO; son Bradley Dodd (Sandra) of Austin, TX; daughter Melissa Dodd Eskilson (Kurt) of Topeka; and daughter Lori Dultmeier (Jim) of Topeka; 13 grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren: Alicia Dodd Thompson (Tyler); Jeremy Dodd, Shannon Dodd; Eric Dodd (Kylie) and sons Nathan and Tate; Amy Dodd Peterson (Eric), daughter Mackenzie and son Ian; Kevin Dodd (Tanya) and daughter Avery; Brooke Eskilson Patterson (Wade); Blake Eskilson, Alek Eskilson; Justin A. Dultmeier (Danae), son Tyson and daughter Alexis; and David A. Dultmeier. He was preceded in death by granddaughter Jennifer R. Dultmeier and grandson Nathan Dodd. Howard will lie in state after 2 p.m. Friday, December 5. The viewing will be from 5 to 7 p.m. at Penwell-Gabel Funeral Home, Southeast Chapel, 2843 SE Minnesota Ave., Topeka. The funeral will be December 6 at 10:00 a.m. at Central Church of Christ, Huntoon and College in Topeka. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to World Bible School, International Headquarters, P.O. Box 2169, Cedar Park, TX, 78630-2169; by phone at 800-311-2006, or online at http://www.worldbibleschool.net/.

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Howard Dodd

On Tuesday morning the Central Church lost a special family member. Howard Dodd passed from this life into his eternal reward with his Heavenly Father.

Howard was a man of faith and integrity. He was a man that loved his Father and loved the Central Church. He was a man that loved and cherished his family and loved his wife with all his heart.

When Howard talked, you listened. He was a man of great wisdom. I loved his stories of New Mexico that he shared with me. He loved to travel and enjoyed sharing stories about the places that Doris and he had visited.

I am thankful Howard gave the opening prayer a week ago Sunday night. I always enjoyed hearing Howard pray for the congregation. That last prayer - I will always remember.

We will miss Howard immensely.

We will miss his calm demeanor, his caring attitude and his loving spirit.

Howard, thank you for touching my life in a special way. You will never know how many you influenced in such a positive way during your 75 years on earth.

Enjoy your eternal home with our Father.

I know you are flying high this morning with the angels!

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

Psalm 23

The Lord is my Shepherd ----- that's a Relationship!
I shall not want ----- that's Supply!
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures ----that's Rest!
He leadeth me beside the still waters -----that's Refreshment!
He restoreth my soul ----- that's Healing!
He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness --that's Guidance!
For His name sake ----- that's Purpose!
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death--that's Testing!
I will fear no evil ----- that's Protection!
For Thou art with me ----- that's Faithfulness!
Thy rod and Thy staff they comfort me -----that's Discipline!
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies------that's Hope!
Thou annointest my head with oil ----- that's Consecration!
My cup runneth over ----- that's Abundance!
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life----that's Blessing!
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord -----that's Security!
Forever ----- that's Eternity!

Monday, December 01, 2008

Silent Sermon

A church member, who previously had attended worship services faithfully,for years, stopped going. After a few weeks, the minister decided to visit him.

It was a chilly evening. The preacher found the man at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire. Guessing the reason for the minister's visit; the man welcomed him, led him to a comfortable chair near the fireplace, and waited.

The preacher made himself at home but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated the dance of the flames around the burning logs. After some minutes, the preacher took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning ember and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone, then he sat back in his chair, still silent.

The host watched all this in quiet contemplation. As the one lone ember's flame flickered and diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and dead.

Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting. The preacher glanced at his watch and realized it was time to leave. He slowly stood up, picked up the cold, dead ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately, it began to glow,once more with the light and warmth, of the burning coals around it.

As the preacher reached the door to leave, his host said with a tear running down his cheek, 'Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the fiery sermon. I shall be back in worship, next Sunday.'

We live in a world today, which tries to say too much with too little. Consequently, few listen. Sometimes the best sermons are the ones left unspoken.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Prentice Meador

Prentice Meador former pulpit minister at Prestoncrest Church of Christ in Dallas and currently on the faculty at Lipscomb University passed away suddenly on Tuesday. He and his wife Barbara are truly wonderful people who have done so much for so many. He was a great minister of the Gospel.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Thanksgiving Nightmare



I hope your Thanksgiving is better than this individuals Thanksgiving nightmare………………

My in-laws were in town 2 years ago and in addition my parents were coming over. It was the first time in our marriage that everybody came to OUR house for the holiday. That morning as my wife was making early preparation, our septic tank overflowed all over our basement. The smell was anything but festive and the mess was even worse. A $50 shop-vac and a $500 holiday septic service special helped clean up a little but nonetheless, it was not something I ever care to relive. We laugh about it now, but then…UGH!

May your blessings overflow this Thanksgiving!

Monday, November 24, 2008

Thanksgiving Thoughts

Thanksgiving 2008
A year full of blessings
Health
Debbie
Brian
Craig
Allison
Mom-Dad
The Central Family
Running each morning at 4:45 and seeing the falling stars
Hearing the dogs bark as I run scaring away the skunks
Turkey
Summer Saturday morning's Fishing with Mike
My vocational ministry
Debbie’s Health
Very soon a new teacher in the family
Going to bed on a Friday night exhausted from the week
Sweaters during the cold weather
Golf with Debbie
Central YP Group
My Building Principals
Warm Weather
Hot weather
Dry Weather
A God who Loves Me
A Savior Who Died for Me

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Thursday Thoughts

Wise words from Donald McCullough:

“Those who have faced the complexity of their own lives, who have stumbled and fallen and been humiliated by their failures, have a more gracious spirit toward other people. They understand that things are rarely black and white, but more often varying shades of gray"

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

What Makes You Happy and Satisfied?

Last night Debbie and I attended our 17th University of Kansas Honor’s Dinner. We hosted the event where we recognized the top 10% of our graduating class along with the top 10% of the Osage County and Wabaunsee County Schools. It’s always a privilege to honor the best and brightest.

Our guest speaker was Dr. Marlesa Roney from KU. She motivated the kids and encouraged them to make a difference in this world. A question she asked the students was a simple one, but one that we all need to consider from time to time. The question was, “what makes you happy and satisfied?”

As I sat there and considered the question, I thought to myself right now I am really not very happy or satisfied.

Stress at work, activities and meetings each night, late night dinners, holidays coming up but having to work because of reports being due, and pending state budget cuts where I am going to have to lay people off. How can I really be happy and satisfied with all these struggles?

Slow down world. Let me off this rat race. I want to be content, happy and satisfied but how?

By going back to where true happiness is found…….in Christ.

When I got out of the dinner I thought about the words to this new song that I have fallen in love with. It describes what Christ did for me and continues to do each and every day…………

"In Christ Alone"
Words and Music by Keith Getty & Stuart Townend
Copyright © 2001 Kingsway Thankyou Music

In Christ alone my hope is found;
He is my light, my strength, my song;
This cornerstone, this solid ground,
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm.
What heights of love, what depths of peace,
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease!
My comforter, my all in all—
Here in the love of Christ I stand.

In Christ alone, Who took on flesh,
Fullness of God in helpless babe!
This gift of love and righteousness,
Scorned by the ones He came to save.
Till on that cross as Jesus died,
The wrath of God was satisfied;
For ev'ry sin on Him was laid—
Here in the death of Christ I live.

There in the ground His body lay,
Light of the world by darkness slain;
Then bursting forth in glorious day,
Up from the grave He rose again!
And as He stands in victory,
Sin's curse has lost its grip on me;
For I am His and He is mine—
Bought with the precious blood of Christ.

No guilt in life, no fear in death—
This is the pow'r of Christ in me;
From life's first cry to final breath,
Jesus commands my destiny.
No pow'r of hell, no scheme of man,
Can ever pluck me from His hand;
Till He returns or calls me home—
Here in the pow'r of Christ I'll stand.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

American Education Week



Congratulations to all those involved in educating the youth of America. This week is set aside to thank you for so many long hours and hard work.

Friday, November 14, 2008

Remember

I read Psalm 105 last week and something so simple came to life. It's a Psalm of thanksgiving. A history lesson for God's Children. He wants us to remember that He will continue to take care of our needs. Writing things down helps us remember what has occurred and what we need to be thankful for. This Thanksgiving share those blessings with your family. What has God blessed you with this past year?

Thursday, November 13, 2008

My Top 5 Favorite Restaurants

Many of my friends ask me from time to time how I know where the best restaurants are. I tell them its from being in every small town in the Midwest for the past 30 years with school activities, meetings and golf outings with Debbie. Someone the other day asked me to list my top 5. Here they are...........




1. Town and Country (Wichita, Kansas)


When Town and Country restaurant opened its doors in 1957, it was one of the best family style diners in the Wichita area. 48 years later in the same location, they are still considered one of the best home style family restaurants serving a variety of home cooked dishes. My grandparents took me here for onion rings and fried chicken when I was only 6 years old. My kids love this place and every time I hit Wichita I take my colleagues here for the best prime rib dinners in town. The chicken fried steaks are pretty good as well. Best prices in town. Where can you get a luncheon prime rib dinner for $7?

2. Chances R (York, Nebraska)


Best Sunday Brunch I have ever eaten. Great food. The fried chicken, masked potatoes, creamed peas, salad bar and carrot cake are worth the four hour drive northward in a snowstorm to eat here. It's a special place where I ate immediately after Brian was born. Many memories made here. Got my first job in education sitting in a booth at 1:00 a.m. talking with the York College Academic Dean in 1985.

3. AQ Chicken (Springdale, Arkansas)

Best fried chicken in the world. Debbie and I ate here on our honeymoon and eat here once a year on our annual golf vacations. I like to buy a 10 piece bucket, a large order of onion rings, homemade rolls and go to the park and get sick trying to eat everything. Great lemon pepper seasoning. If you go through Northwest Arkansas, it is a must stop.


4. Bubba's BBQ (Eureka Springs, Arkansas)


Best BBQ ribs I have ever eaten. Not a fancy place. Seats about 35-40 people, but many presidents and celebrities have eaten Bubba's famous ribs. Great stop after 65 holes of golf. You can split the order of ribs with another person. Large portions of food.


5. Papasitos (Arlington, Texas)

Great Mexican food and the home made tortillas are the best. It's so good that I usually eat there two days in a row when I get to the Dallas area. Several locations in Texas.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

A Prayer for Our Nation

You Have Our Attention, Lord
Prayer offered by Max Lucado
10/4/2008

Dear God:
Our friends lost their house
The co-worker lost her job
The couple next door lost their retirement
It seems that everyone is losing their footing
This scares us.
This bailout with billions.
These rumblings of depression.
These headlines: ominous, thunderous-“Going Broke!” “Going Down!” “Going Under!” “What Next?”
What is next?
We’re listening.
And we’re admitting: You were right.
You told us this would happen.
You shot straight about loving stuff and worshipping money.
Greed will break your heart, you warned.
Money will love you and leave you.
Don’t put your hope in riches that are so uncertain.
You were right.
Money is a fickle lover and we just got dumped.
We were wrong to spend what we didn’t have,Wrong to neglect prayer and ignore the poor,Wrong to think we ever earned a dime.
We didn’t.
You gave it.
And now, tell us Father, are you taking it?
We’re listening.
And we’re praying.
Could you make something good out of this mess?
Of course you can.
You always have.
You led slaves out of slavery,Built temples out of ruins,Turned stormy waves into a glassy pond and water into sweet wine.
This disorder awaits your order.
So do we.
Through Christ,
Amen· • • • ·

God will always give what is right to his people who cry to him night and day, and he will not be slow to answer them. (Lk. 18:7 NCV)

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Veterans Day


Veterans Day, 1954
BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
A PROCLAMATION
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Whereas it has long been our customs to commemorate November 11, the anniversary of the ending of World War I, by paying tribute to the heroes of that tragic struggle and by rededicating ourselves to the cause of peace; and

Whereas in the intervening years the United States has been involved in two other great military conflicts, which have added millions of veterans living and dead to the honor rolls of this Nation; and

Whereas the Congress passed a concurrent resolution on June 4, 1926 (44 Stat. 1982), calling for the observance of November 11 with appropriate ceremonies, and later provided in an act approved May 13, 1938 (52 Stat. 351), that the eleventh of November should be a legal holiday and should be known as Armistice Day; and

Whereas, in order to expand the significance of that commemoration and in order that a grateful Nation might pay appropriate homage to the veterans of all its wars who have contributed so much to the preservation of this Nation, the Congress, by an act approved June 1, 1954 (68 Stat. 168), changed the name of the holiday to Veterans Day:

Now, Therefore, I, Dwight D. Eisenhower, President of the United States of America, do hereby call upon all of our citizens to observe Thursday, November 11, 1954, as Veterans Day. On that day let us solemnly remember the sacrifices of all those who fought so valiantly, on the seas, in the air, and on foreign shores, to preserve our heritage of freedom, and let us reconsecrate ourselves to the task of promoting an enduring peace so that their efforts shall not have been in vain.

I also direct the appropriate officials of the Government to arrange for the display of the flag of the United States on all public buildings on Veterans Day.

In order to insure proper and widespread observance of this anniversary, all veterans, all veterans' organizations, and the entire citizenry will wish to join hands in the common purpose.
Toward this end, I am designating the Administrator of Veterans' Affairs as Chairman of a Veterans Day National Committee, which shall include such other persons as the Chairman may select, and which will coordinate at the national level necessary planning for the observance. I am also requesting the heads of all departments and agencies of the Executive branch of the Government to assist the National Committee in every way possible.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand and cause the Seal of the United States of America to be affixed.

Done at the City of Washington this eighth day of October in the Year of our Lord nineteen hundred and fifty-four, and of the Independence of the United States of America the one hundred and seventy-ninth.

DWIGHT D. EISENHOWER

Monday, November 10, 2008

Lincoln to Obama

Been thinking about the historical significance of the 2008 election. As for President-elect Obama we now know he is God’s man for this time. Who knows what our God is up to? Whatever it is, I’m confident it’s a better plan than anything I could come up with. We as believers need to trust the King of Kings and Lord of Lords.

Finally, to President Abraham Lincoln. Wouldn’t he be so proud right now? Just think- President Obama could choose to sleep in the room President Lincoln signed the Emancipation Proclamation (now the Lincoln Bedroom) in 1863. I think that’s kind of neat to think about it.

We have come so far as a nation…………………

Saturday, November 08, 2008

Order of Worship

Welcome/Announcements

47 Holy, Holy, Holy (Verse 1 Only)
100 Holy Ground
64 I Worship You Almighty God (Sing Twice)
155 Highest Place

Prayer

In Christ Alone

Communion
Contribution

559 The Joy of the Lord

Message

Invitation 666 I Am Thine O Lord (Verse 1 and 4 Only)

Announcements

That’s Why We Praise Him

Closing Prayer

Thursday, November 06, 2008

Craig


Many people ask me how Craig is doing. Great. School is going well. He loves where he goes to church and his weekly Bible study. He loves his job at Ugg Australia. This is a pic of his co-workers at one of the work parties by Glamour Magazine and St. Judes. Craig, don't forget my houseshoes for Christmas!

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

Congratulations Craig


This was Craig's first election and his candidate won. Both my boy's are very political but Craig has a love for the process itself. As a sophomore at FIT-New York he was elected to political office as a sophomore. He was so excited after last nights results he called me (woke me up) to talk about the possible hope and change our country could see during the next four years. I hope you are right Craig. We need a country that is united and one that can begin the healing process in a variety of areas. President-Elect Obama, our prayers are with you this morning as you begin to make the needed changes for our society.









Monday, November 03, 2008

Weekend Volleyball

Debbie and I spent the past three days at the Class 3A State Volleyball Tournament in Salina. We enjoyed watching the OCHS Girl's play Friday night. We had a large Osage City turnout for Halloween night but just couldn't get on the winning track. We lost to Jeff North, Hoisington and Phillipsburg. That knocked us out of the two day tournament early.

Saturday we spent shopping and enjoying the beautiful 80 degree weather in Salina.

Sunday we worshipped with some of our friends that live in Salina. We enjoyed the powerful worship experience.

It was nice to get away but always nice to get home............

Friday, October 31, 2008

Pumpkin Fellowship Pics









The 5th Annual YP Pumpkin Fellowship was very enjoyable. Thanks Sarah for the pics. More to come...........................
Happy Halloween!





Wednesday, October 29, 2008

You Tube Wednesday

If you haven't seen this... well, consider this your introduction to the craze that is sweeping the nation. 1.1 million viewers can't be wrong. Jesus is My Friend!



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-NOZU2iPA8

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Happy Birthday Mike


Happy Birthday to my little brother. My fishing partner and good friend. I enjoy our early Saturday morning philosophical discussions down at the river. I hope you have a great day!

Christmas 2018 in Las Vegas and Texas